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’m not really sure how to write this book review and it’s taken me a few days since finishing it to be able to write it
I’m not one to get squeamish or a prude or anything as my friends would say "I like the sick"
But this book was a bit difficult for me. It isnt the most “graphic” of novels, but it’s just the way you can almost imagine Strane to be licking his lips and heavy breathing on Vanessa. Whilst reading it I often had shivers.
The thing that i struggled most to get my head around is just how much Vanessa annoyed me. And I felt awful for this, with what she has gone through
I was so desperate to read this book and I’m still not sure if I “enjoyed” it. But there is one thing for sure, the book will stay with me for a while!
I’m going to give this ⭐️⭐️⭐️ for now as I still cannot make my mind up!

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Dark, gripping and unsettling. I was hooked from the first few chapters! I found way the author wrote this book so interesting - it's a dark and disturbing topic but the way the author wrote parts of it it could be easy to see how some people could be sympathetic to both Vanessa and Strane. It had some quite shocking sections that were hard to read but it made the emotion and character-arc so much more intriguing.

I heard a lot of hype about this book and I was not disappointed. I flew through the pages devouring every unsettling and disturbing detail. A very timely topic of grooming in an era where people are finally calling out the abusers.

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Not an easy read. I struggled with the whole concept of 'responsibility'. Initially - of course it's the adult! The more I read I became more and more uncertain. At the end - of course it's the adult. Enjoyed the book but a very demanding read.

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There is so much that can be said about this novel. An extremely sensitive subject matter which people may find uncomfortable for a number of different reasons.

The story was depressing but also captivating. The ending frustrated me and let me down. It felt rushed and shallow compared to the depth of the rest of the novel.

The time order of the story coming together didn’t quite cohesively meet at the end for me. However I think this will be a memorable read that I will be thinking of for a long time after reading

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I completely underestimated how dark this book was actually going to be. This was a dark, difficult and emotional book to read however that being said I read it in a few sittings and just couldn't put it down. This was a powerful book which is perfect for our current climate and the me too movement we are presently seeing.

I found the characters so real, Vanessa was incredible well written as a character. I found it so interesting to read from a perspective that seemed so real and to get a greater understanding of how someone like Vanessa wouldn't realise they are a victim.

I would 100% recommend as I think it is an important read.

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This was such a gruelling read .
This is the tale of the manipulation and seduction of a fifteen year old girl-Vanessa- by her English teacher .
However -the story is told from the veiwpoint of Vanessa -a gifted student who just can't seem to see the harm this is doing to her .
You forget at times she is an impressionable young girl and I wanted to give her a good shake .
Quite a sad story really

Thankyou Net Galley for an ARC in return for an honest review.

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Thrillingly dark and gloomy, this twisted and oppressive tale of a 'romantic' relationship developed between a school girl and her English teacher is packed with introspection and a claustrophobic, overriding feeling of inevitability as Vanessa unpacks her formative years and her experience of relationships.
The book jumps back and forth between Vanessa's present - in 2017 - and her past. In the wake of an accusation by another student of sexual assault against an English teacher in her school, Vanessa begins to return to her relationship with that teacher, which began when she was fifteen, and the impact this had on her life in the years following. The novel follows Vanessa through her high school and college experiences, up until she's about 22, which means we see the lasting impact and repercussions of her experience with Strane.
I hesitate to use the word relationship here, because although it was a relationship, Vanessa's unpacking of what that means and what her experience with Strane did to her life in general is one of the great strengths of the book. Vanessa is deep, deep in the cycle of abuse, and is fully sure that Strane loved her, and that their relationship was pure and beautiful - it was only the world turned him into a monster.
My Dark Vanessa makes for uncomfortable reading, which I had to take frequent breaks from, because it was very hard to cope with at times. Not because of graphic content - although there were repeated descriptions of teenage rape, even if that's now how Vanessa saw it at the time - but because of the psychological wearing down of Vanessa's boundaries and defences, until she thinks that Strane's interest in her is pure and romantic, rather than disconcerting and predatory.
The way in which Strane gently breaks down Vanessa's boundaries is methodical and slow, clearly a man who knows how to manipulate vulnerable young girls, and as the book progresses and you see how this impacts on Vanessa's life in so many ways, it can be difficult to cope with. Vanessa herself remains oblivious at the time, and looking back with her adult eyes, she sees much less than the reader does. The narrative delicately positions Vanessa as a hugely unreliable narrator, as her starry-eyed naivete paints a much less grim image than we see as readers.
Deeply affecting, and honestly the best portrayal of a student-teacher relationship I've ever read, it's hard to believe that this is a debut, and I look forward to reading more from Kate Elizabeth Russell.

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Compelling, yet deeply unsettling! Author, Kate Elizabeth Russell has created a riveting page-turner that depicts an unflinching account of the grooming and manipulation of an underaged girl by an adult male in a role of trust and power. And of the devastating consequences for both of them. The psychologies of both characters are fascinating. This one will linger.

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This is a really uncomfortable read - but being made to confront a difficult situation is uncomfortable. The subject at hand is the grooming and abuse of a 15 year old girl by her teacher. There is a move by society, and in this case, the author, to question did the girl/victim 'ask' for it, or indeed, want it. I firmly believe this is not true. Come on, look at all the things we believe we knew, understood and really wanted at 15 - and now look back on with wry amusement because, thankfully, there were adults there to guide us.

I found the first part of the book very hard to read. Details of the psychological grooming and the physical abuse are not spared, and I questioned why I was reading this subject matter as entertainment. It felt wrong, voyeuristic and frankly as if I was participating.

However the book moves on and deals with Vanessa's state of mind regarding the teacher and her predicament. She is convinced that she is special, their relationship was special and therefore she was in control. At this point I found the book fascinating, how the coercive control of the abuser lasts for years, impacting the lives of the victim, her family and other students at the school.

So to sum up - deeply uncomfortable but I hope that many people read it as it provides an insight into the long term chaos caused by adults abusing their position of trust.

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A disturbing, thought provoking and compulsive story of grooming and it's impact on a 15 year old girl by her school teacher; will stay with me for a long time

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Wow! What a debut! Uncomfortable, compelling, disturbing and dark, Amy Dark Vanessa won’t be for everyone but you will be missing a real gem if you don’t read it.

The story of Vanessa Wye and her relationship with her teacher Jacob Strane. When she joins a prestigious boarding school and falls out with the only friend she has, she is a vulnerable young girl. Always a bit of an outsider and a loaner, she is lonely and vulnerable and Strane 30 years her senior hones in on her and takes advantage of her isolation and loneliness.
Convincing her she is something special, an infatuation for him, he convinces her that she is the love of his life and that she is in control of everything that happens.

The story is told exclusively from the viewpoint of Vanessa, from the present day where she is 32 years of age, back when it all began when she was 15 and a little later in her young life when she is in college. It bounces back and forth between the three as the story slowly unfolds.

So, yes this is an extremely uncomfortable read and it’s not a very pleasant subject matter but it’s an utterly compelling read. The beauty of it is that it’s not just black and white like it could so easily have been. Don’t get me wrong, at no point do you think that Strane is anything less than a monster but Vanessa and her narrative make a good case for him to the reader and herself that he isn’t the monster he is. She is trying to convince us as much as she is herself. Her life has been consumed and defined by him. She has never admitted to people or herself that she is a victim. She sees herself as a willing participant. The relationship defines who she is and her life. To admit she is a victim shatters everything she believes about her self and her life.

She is also, dare I say not the most likeable character. Slightly narcissistic and aloof, she’s not the sweet little girl that could have been portrayed here as the innocent victim. It adds shade to the whole thing and stops it becoming an exercise by numbers.
Be in no doubt though. You never look at her as anything but the victim and Strane as nothing other than a monster. As I say there is shade added to both characters which adds hugely to the depth of the story but it is ultimately the story of a victim and a perpetrator.

It’s only January and this one is already in contention for my book of the year. The writing is brilliant. The characterisation is brilliant. The light and shade added to the obvious black and white is brilliant.

An utterly compelling read that will stay with me for a long time. Highly recommended.

Many thanks to Netgalley, 4th Estate and Kate Elizabeth Russell for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

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A conflicting and compelling read.

Russell not only tells the story from the perspective of Vanessa (both past as a teenager, as a college student and present in her early thirties), but as the reader you very much feel like you are experiencing every moment with Vanessa, transfixed, mesmerised and at times incredibly uncomfortable.

I imagine that I could have read this completely in a few sittings, if I hadn't felt so incredibly tense and stomach-churningly uncomfortable whilst reading - and believe me that is certainly not a criticism; Russell gives so much life to this story - a story which in recent years is being told in many iterations - as she forces you to consider consent, autonomy and victimhood from a perspective I'm sure many have/would not approached this story from.

My main criticism is that although for at least the first half, Russell’s storytelling felt fresh, unfortunately somewhere around the 60% mark it became repetitive and ever so slightly pulpy towards the end.

I can’t say it’s a story that I would particularly want to re-visit or re-read, ever, but it was certainly compelling enough.

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All through the night reading this - I just couldn’t put it down. Deeply disturbing and harrowing, through Vanessa’s eyes you see grooming in action. I loved Vanessa, strong and yet so very damaged by those in charge of caring and nurturing her.

I predict that this book may well end up as a text book in schools, it really is that powerful.

A must read

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Perhaps the 'must read' book of 2020 but more for the discussion it might provoke than for its literary merit.

The novel effectively portrays how predators can abuse and even rape vulnerable girls and women while somehow still making the victim feel that they are in control. And it raises some interesting questions about the culpability of others (here parents and fellow teachers) in ignoring, or choosing to be reassured, about warning signs and the agency of a victim to narrate their own story. The story's most powerful moments comes as Vanessa's own narrative of the events unravels and she sees her treatment for what it is, but I found the overall story too drawn out (the novel feels twice as long as it needs to be) and I didn't really find myself believing in Vanessa.

And for a book that draws heavily on literary sources, notably Nabakov (Lolita obviously, but also Pale Fire for its title), the prose didn't live up to its influences.

A solid 3 stars.

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I DNF'd this book at 50%.

This is a really hard book to review. It's well written, with beautiful language, imagery and a well-considered plot. It's also a story that unfortunately is as old as time whilst simultaneously keying into the 'me too' movement. It's a story that needs to be brought to light and the book raises some interesting questions about how virginity and youth are fetishised in culture, from hit songs of the '70s to 'Lolita' and, in some ways, condoned.

But, the book made for uncomfortable reading. So much so, that I almost felt complicit in Vanessa's abuse. Whilst this speaks of the author's power at bringing Vanessa to life, and the way that she really got inside the head of an abuse victim, and the conflicting feelings experienced, it felt sordid and sad to read.

This is definitely a case of this not being the right book for me, but I would like to thank the publisher and Net Galley for the advanced copy in return for an honest review.

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The subject matter of this book is not an enjoyable read and it is challenging to be confronted with it from Vanessa’s perspective. I will confess I didn’t finish the book as it simply wasn’t for me but the writing is engaging and well written.

Thanks for letting me review this book

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My Dark. Vanessa by Kate Elizabeth Russell is the kind of book that really gets under your skin.
The subject matter is so dark, yet the story so absorbing.
This book tells the story of Vanessa Wye, a 15 year old student who is being groomed by her 45 year old English teacher Jacob Strane.
Told from Vanessa’s perspective, and set between 1994-2014, this book was disturbing in so many ways.... Vanessa truly believes Strane is in love with her, and doesn’t see herself as a victim.
This was a gripping, raw read that had me thinking about it long after I finished reading.
I have recommended it to my friends, and I will look out for more works from the author.

Thank you to the author, publisher and Netgalley for allowing me to read in return for an honest review.

5stars

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Thanks netgalley for an opportunity to review this title.

This book blow me away and was unputdownable! Its shocking and horrific and a brilliant debut novel. I can highly recommend it and will defiantly be recommending it to the 2000+ members of my online book club.

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3,5 Stars rounded up to 4.

„My Dark Vanessa“ is one of the most unusual books I have ever read. It is dark, disturbing and even horrifying.

Vanessa is 15 when she meets her teacher Jacob Strane. She is different than most of the other girls. She likes being alone and she does not feel the need for friends. Like every teen she is hungry for attention and her growing interest in men is quite normal for a girl her age. Strane on the other hand, is a sexual predator. He likes young girls and he is very good at spotting the girl who will be the one to fall into his trap. He showers Vanessa with compliments about how special, how fascinating her darker site is, how brilliant she is and how matured. He is a master manipulator and he makes Vanessa think, that she is in control and that she always can say no. But Vanessa is submissive and naive although she sees herself as clever and grownup. She gets obsessed with Strane and this obsession will never stop.

The book is not an easy read and the story is also not easy. Strane is obvious a creep and very manipulative but there is maybe a different site to him. Or maybe Vanessa just wants to believe it. The story is told from her point of view in two timelines so we only see Strane through her eyes. She is so enamored and so influenced by him that she cannot let him go. Until she was 22 there was never another man than him in her life. She craves his attention, his admiration and his love because she does not get it somewhere else and she never tries to get it somewhere else. She needs this to be a love story.

This was such an uncomfortable read. It was hard for me to read what became of Vanessa and how she sugarcoated Strane and what he did to her. But the book asks also the question if it possible, under any circumstances, that Vanessa at 15 was maybe matured enough that she knew what she was doing and that it would be OK to be with a 45 years old man. I found the sex scenes to be cringe worthy and I am not sure if I really got what Vanessa was seeing and looking for in Strane. Vanessa refuses to see herself as a victim and that point gave me a lot to think about. I can understand that she does not want to be labelled as a victim and marked for life. But that made it harder to swallow that she did not see that Strane made her exactly that.

My only problem with the book was that it was too long and it is told very slow and detailed. It drags sometimes a little bit although the writing is very good. But there is too much detail, too much every day stuff and sometimes I got confused with the two timelines. I needed almost two weeks to finish it and it felt way too long, especially because it was such an uncomfortable story.

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Vanessa, at 15: passionately in love with her 45-year-old teacher.
Vanessa, at 32: prompted by #metoo into reckoning with the grooming and abuse that has defined her life.

Told through the victim’s romance-warped lens, My Dark Vanessa ’s protagonist defends her abuse as a ‘love story’… then gradually comes to a different realisation. A young girl believes herself to be singled-out, special, passionately in love, when in fact she is being exploited. It’s a tale as old as time.

Charting that tale’s path, the novel is strewn with high- and pop-culture references: Titus Andronicus; Cadenus & Vanessa; Nabokov of course; films like Pretty Baby and American Beauty; 'My Sharona'; Fiona Apple’s ‘Criminal’ music video, Monica Lewinsky and Britney Spears. The more recent ones coincide with the novel’s late 90s/early 00s setting and are an interesting marker of the cultural distance between then and now—it feels wider than a mere two decades.

These references add cultural context: a history of glamorising and enabling such crimes and of sexualising young girls. Meanwhile, My Dark Vanessa presents us with its own salacious story and dark, gothic aesthetic of self-destruction. Integral to Vanessa’s perspective is her romanticisation of her abuse, so it follows that this novel describes abuse in romantic terms. Does it overstep and become that which it seeks to criticise? Russell deliberately keeps these waters murky. Maybe it was her intention make the reader feel complicit, or perhaps manipulated like Vanessa. Maybe not. I just wish there had been more beams of clear light cutting through the haze.

The story flows easily and it becomes impossible to put this book down. However, I never believed Vanessa was anything more than the author’s construct (which of course, all fictional characters are, but it’s the illusion of realness that we readers look for), and some of the writing here is pretty hackneyed.
Q: How many times can Vanessa bite/chew her lip/tongue/inside of her cheek?
A: 17, at least in the ARC version that I read.

If you’ve read Three Women, My Dark Vanessa reads a lot like the fictionalised version of Maggie’s story from that book. Both the details of the crime and the narrative voice are similar, right down to the odd portmanteaus (3W: ‘fearquick’, ‘shamehot’; MDV: ‘possumdead’, ‘antsmall’, ‘tender-condescending’). My guess is that if you like one of these books, you’ll like the other.

Every reader brings themselves to a book, and I think that’s especially true here. Your own experiences (or lack of), previous reading or engagement with this topic, demographic: these will all colour how you receive My Dark Vanessa. It’s certainly thought-provoking. Many readers will also find it powerfully affecting, but it was not that for me. 3 stars

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