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Anne talks to you like a big sister or good friend. She know the struggles and wants to help. As a woman I spend a lot of time overthinking. But that is not living our best life. If you want to live your best life than you want to read this book. Finding the patterns that keep you prisoner is going to free you and Anne is going to show you those patterns. I think that Anne manages to breakdown the multiple ways that we do overthink things and I know at least one of these things will resonate with you.

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Bogel could not have timed this book any better. The release of Don't Overthink It occurred during the corona virus scare of 2020. Even people who are usually free from anxiety and overthinking have been prone to panic with the World Health Organization declaring a pandemic and the president declaring a National Emergency. Bogel provides simple, specific tools for managing the tendency to overthink even the most basic decisions. Each chapter has a place to write what your next steps will be with thoughtful prompts. I encourage chronic over thinkers to purchase this book!

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Don't Overthink It sounds like an Anne Bogel book as you read it, which is a wonderful thing if you're a reader of her blog and/or a listener of her podcast. It feels like you're having a chat with a close friend about living a life free from ruminations that suck the joy out of life. This is a short and practical book packed with ideas to try and space to reflect on how these ideas will look in your own life. This is a great choice for anyone who feels like they spend too much time in their head rather than doing the things that make them happy or improve their surroundings. Even if you don't think about yourself as an overthinker, reading this book might help you in your relationships with others who do overthink or get you thinking about how to better align your behaviors with your values and priorities. There's not necessarily a lot of new information here, but the beauty is in how it's put together and explained like a curated set of suggestions from a friend.

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How do I even begin to review a book with so many nuggets of wisdom, that if I listed them all I’d re-write the entire book?

Don’t make the mistake of thinking this book is only for overthinkers. At its heart, it’s a book to help anyone live a more joyful, abundant life. I read my e-galley once for an overview and now will go back through and slowly read the hard copy I pre-ordered and put these nuggets of wisdom into practice.

Anne is one of my favorite bloggers/podcasters and this book is pure gold. The book is written in Anne’s trademark easy-going, conversational style. I was delighted to receive an e-galley and be a part of the launch team.

This book will be on my keeper shelf! Excellent!

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I so enjoyed this book! Anne Bogel gives practical and freeing strategies for overcoming overthinking. From completing the cycle (aka finishing what you start) to letting go of perfectionism and realizing that (many times) the goal is to get a result, not the best possible experience. To be quite honest, I’d never really thought about the connection between overthinking and striving for perfection. Also, Anne writes a lot about living from our values. If we have a clear hold on our values, what we care about, on what we spend our valuable time and money, we can better make intentional and trustworthy decisions. Decisions that reflect those values, that reflect who we are and who we want to be. I highly recommend Don't Overthink It!

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I am such a fan of Anne Bogel's podcast "Whwt Should I Read Next." I enjoy her platform and how she interacts with her guests. I knew that as a writer she would also create content that I enjoyed. I didnt realize just how much I would not only enjoy it, but need it.

In this book Bogel is a dream. She really gets in your head and let's you know that you're just fine doing things the way you're doing them. She does then give tips on how you can prevent some everyday nuances from ruining your entire day.

Basically take a breathe, light the candle, buy the flowers, and stop overthinking it. I loved this one! I will buy a copy for all of the women in my life.

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I am incredibly indecisive and a classic over thinker. This book is exactly what I’ve needed. I have been a longtime fan of Anne Vogel’s podcast, but I hadn’t read one of her books. The real life examples and concrete, usable advice are not only refreshing, but somethings I have needed in my life. I don’t typically like to re-read books, but this is one I will go back to because of the practical advice. It has truly helped me in my life. I am a huge Anne Bogel fan!

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I really enjoyed Anne Bogal’s new book, “Don’t overthink it”. Reading it made me feel like I was talking to a friend who was giving practical and actionable advice about how to get more enjoyment out of life.

In one of my favorite chapters Bogel talks about creating rituals. “Elevating something to ritual status doesn’t require much; it’s all in the way you approach it.” This made me realize that switching out my big mug for one of my pretty tea cups is worth the effort and elevates a routine to a ritual, which makes me happy.

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“Don’t Overthink It” will help everyone who analyzes everything to the point of feeling frozen. This book will give you the tools to let go and feel productive, peaceful and happy. I love that the focus is on the everyday moments of life. The book will assist you in turning habits into rituals, deciding which decisions to put on auto pilot and reframing failure, among many other things. Anne Bogel shares personal anecdotes, which strengthen each point, from splurging on an experience at a unique restaurant with her family, to giving money and a granola bar to each homeless person she meets. Purchase this book and start on a new path to not overthinking.

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Generally speaking, I am not usually a big fan of self-help books but Don't Overthink It by Anne Bogel really resonated with me. In her newest book, Anne discusses various ways we mentally beat ourselves up and how we can stop doing this in positive ways. Since Anne is a fellow overthinker, her story about procrastinating with unpleasant tasks and then later trying frantically to find lost paper work in the middle of the night made me feel like we were two peas in a pod. She writes, "When we put off doing something we don't want to do, we keep the unpleasant thing right in front of us for much longer than we need to." I have never looked at my procrastination in this way and I felt my overworked and sometimes exhausted mind get a big hug from her advice. I also suffer from what Anne calls "Analysis Paralysis" and tend to avoid making decisions when faced with many options. Her Next Steps at the end of every chapter give readers a way to take action and to move forward past old and sometimes detrimental habits. I think that people who suffer from anxiety, negative thinking, procrastination, and self doubt would find a lot of truth and hope in this book.

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Anne Bogel is an author whose writing I respect so when I heard she had a new book coming out I, of course, pre-ordered. I was pleasantly surprised to receive an e-galley of this book from the publisher and the author, thank you! Being someone who always tries to have her ducks-in-a-row, it's no surprise that "Don't Overthink It" spoke to me. The book is written in an enjoyable, conversational style but delivers much information and suggestions. After finishing the book last night, I awoke this morning with three take-aways in my head: You get to choose what you think about, the need to build in margins, and how to change some routines into rituals. So many more nuggets of information await me, but these three will be a great start for my situation! This is a book that I will pick up and read through many times - for reference, and for the feeling of camaraderie that's felt through out the pages. Well done!

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Don’t Overthink It: Make Easier Decisions, Stop Second-Guessing, and Bring More Joy to Your Life by Anne Bogel is a book for anyone who suffers from the dreaded analysis paralysis. I needed this book. I mean, I overthought how to write this review before I even read the book. After reading it, however, I decided that I need to take Anne’s advice to heart. In the book, Anne draws from her personal experiences with overthinking as well as those of her friends and family, and her warmth and witty personality makes you feel like you are sitting down for coffee with a good friend. She is qualified because she has lived it. I don’t know about you, but that makes it so much easier to take in information that you really need to hear. She tells one story of when her husband was young and had to make a decision on whether to go shopping at Target, which he loved, or wait at home for an opportunity to play with his friends, which he also loved. She talked about how because of his overthinking, whatever he chose to do he would not be happy. Ding! Light bulb moment. I keep going back to this one sentence. It’s an endless cycle, and in this book Anne gives advice on how to break it. Ahhh...sigh of relief. Until Anne made the connection for me, I never really related overthinking to procrastination and exactly how much your internal thoughts affect the rest of your life and relationships. I read this as an Advance Review Copy (ARC) and have highlighted it up. I just sat down to print out my highlights because I can’t wait to annotate my physical copy (yes, I’m one of those people). I have heard myself saying “Don’t Overthink It” a lot lately to my friends and my family but mostly to myself. This is a book I will be coming back to again and again to remind myself to #buytheflowers. I know this book is going to resonate with a lot of people, especially women. Give it a try. I guarantee you will get something out of it.

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Anne Bogel is masterful in her ability to persuade. Whether it is in calling out all of us who overthink everything, sometimes to the point of decision paralysis or in her podcast trying to entice people to read something that they hadn't ever considered. This book brilliantly does this through insightful messages and ideas.
Great book for anyone looking for a shot of positivity and insight.
Thank you for the eARC. I've already bought the final book.
#Netgalley #Don'tOverthinkIt #BakerBooks #AnneBogel

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What a fantastic read! As I was reading this book, I felt as though I was having a chat about decision making over coffee with a friend. Anne’s style of writing spoke to me personally, and I just could not wait to see what she was going to say next. I never saw myself as an overthinker in general, but through reading Anne’s book, I could clearly see the areas of my life I definitely overthink my decisions.

If you are a person who struggles with decision-making, or doesn’t, this book is for you. As she moves through the decision-making process in great detail, Anne gives practical action steps to address the many ways in which we become stuck when making decisions, hence overthinking. She also clearly states the advantages to moving through decisions with confidence and experiencing the joy of knowing how to do that without so much deliberation. Thank you, Anne, for sharing your knowledge concerning decision-making and encouraging all of us to be better decision makers along the way.

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As soon as I knew this author had a new book coming out I just had to preorder it. Then I got lucky and received an ARC of the book due to The Modern Mrs Darcy Bookclub. I have never been able to put into words how I deal with lives challenges and making decisions until I read this book and realized I am an overthinking done to sometimes the smallest things. I once stood in the coffee aisle for 30 mins trying to decide on a new coffee to buy. This is a down to earth approach to making the easiest to sometimes the hard decisions in a timely fashion. Little tips along the way make it all doable and with a friendly approach like you are speaking with an old friend. Even through I have finished the book I catch myself remembering little tips to help make decisions easier. This is good for anyone who has had a hard time making decisions or tends to overthink those decisions for days or weeks after.

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I’ve enjoyed all of Anne’s books. This one is full of practical, helpful ideas. As a perfectionist who overthinks all kinds of things, I felt like this book was written for someone just like me!

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I found Anne Bogel years ago and resonated immediately with her genuine and charismatic style. She’s a lot like me: a reader, a learner, a lover of fresh flowers. And she loves finding ways to make life easier to make room for what’s most important.

In her new book, Don’t Overthink It, Anne breaks down analysis paralysis and teaches you how to be the master of your own mind rather than its hostage. Once again, Anne’s words are practical and thoughtful, and I don’t think I’ll ever second-guess a grocery store bouquet again. She’s all about helping us find the beauty in life through small and impactful ways.

I didn’t think I was much of an overthinker, but it turns out I am. And now I know what to do about!

Just go out and buy this book—you’ll be glad you did!

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BUY THIS BOOK.
Don’t Overthink It.
Just buy the book.
Anne Bogel is the host of the What Should I Read Next podcast and Modern Mrs Darcy blog! Modern Mrs Darcy. I own a copy of every book she’s written and you should too, beginning with #dontoverthinkitbook.
Disclosure1: I participated on this launch team led by Caleb Peavy because I love Anne so much! I even bought a copy of her book to give away! The publisher gave me a digital copy of the book to read in advance.
Disclosure2: I started reading fiction again after Anne interviewed me on her podcast and don’t resent it one bit! https://modernmrsdarcy.com/170-episode/
Just buy the books!
And for goodness sake #buytheflowers, too.Less

P.S. I will review on Amazon as soon as my copy arrives so it appears as a Verified Purchase Review.

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This book is a well-written outline of tips we can use to stop overthinking and why we should not overthink. I have known for most of my life that I am an over-thinker but this book helped me to see the impact overthinking has on my life, my time, my family, and my relationships. It also shows that I am not alone in this. The author succinctly describes ways to stop overthinking that are not immediate fixes but instead lifelong tools to use. I look forward to re-reading it in the future. I did not realize how much I needed to read this book.

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This book takes a real world and immediately applicable approach to those unhelpful paralyzing thoughts that keep us from making decisions that will bring us peach & joy. Something I know I could use more of. I'm a life-long overthinker and now I have some great tools and stories at the ready to encourage me to move on. This will be a frequent re-read and has found a home on my desk so I remember to don't overthink it.

Anne's writing continues to speak to me long after I put her book down. I often ask what Anne would do in a particular situation from what to read next or if I should buy the flowers.

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