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I think this book is definitely a marmite book. I was really looking forward to it as it sounded amazing and I’d heard good things but unfortunately it just wasn’t for me. All the way through I expected, well, more I guess and it just didn’t happen. I was dissatisfied with the end and I found the middle was very boring and repetitive.
That being said, I will look out for Robinne Lee’s further books as I did find th writing style very relaxed and easy going.
I am still thinking about this book. One of those types of stories that will haunt you, as it's full of 'what if' situations. I didn't always need it to be so graphic and at points it really stretched the plausibility angle but you won't be able to put it down.
Total indulgent escapism! 39 year old respectable mother of a pre teen falls for a pop star 20 years younger then her. Very easy to read, totally sexy and couldn’t put it down!
This is a rather fantastic fun read, with a lot to say about ours, and society’s, attitude to women and ageing. On the surface it’s a thrill of a ride through the relationship between different generations: exciting, racy and glamorous. But scratching deeper, with the cliched older man/younger women pairing turned on its head, Hayes & Solene’s explosive romance highlights the impossible position women are often placed in, having to choose between what they want and what society and family think they should want. It’s by no means a deep feminist tract, yet The Idea of You balances being both a light, somewhat raunchy, read, with being determined to have its say about women’s needs, society’s expectations, and the often painful chasm between.
2.5 stars. I initially rated this book quite high but after reading some parts again, I felt compelled to edit my rating.
It took me a little while to get in to and at the beginning, there are almost constant references to the age gap and it's a bit tedious.
I couldn't picture Hayes Campbell as anyone but Harry Styles and you know what, I am not complaining a single bit.
This story takes you all around the world, following the band on tour and the whirlwind romance of Solene and Hayes. The sex scenes are great, the chemistry is HOT and the whole thing just sizzles. What Solene and Hayes had was tender and loving. And yes, the sex was fantastic but there was real heart and love in their romance. The connection they shared, the way they treasured each other.
However, some of the references to age feel very…icky. At one point, Hayes mentions that Solene’s daughter has a similar mouth to her mothers and given the very explicit way he talks about her mouth, I just think it’s very…icky. Solene is also obsessed with Hayes’ age. She mentions it so often and there are a few times when it feels uncomfortable and like she is fetishising him.
I thought the insight into the world of boy bands, fame and the things they have to deal with was interesting. The pressure of being everything to everyone and the constant demand is exhausting. And despite how tired they are, management just doesn't let up. In many ways, they're trapped and that's displayed in many ways in the book.
Hayes just wants Solene but with all the baggage that comes with fame, it's hard. Solene faces abuse, death threats but she's a big girl, she can handle it. But it isn't just Solene that's affected by the relationship and she knows that deep down, it can't last. She has to protect her daughter and if that means saying goodbye to a man she loves so deeply, then so be it.
Perfect summer escapism, this book is a steamy read, the story of a romance between 39 year old gallery owner Solene and 20 year old Hayes, a member of a successful boy band. It reminds me of books I read many years ago - full of glamorous people leading jet-setting lives, with a side helping of bedroom scenes - but with an interesting more contemporary reflective element on the pressure of living life in the spotlight. It's a well written book, with interesting characters and chemistry between Hayes and Solene that leaps off the page and I look forward to reading more by Lee.
The Idea of You by Robbine Lee
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I was scrolling through @netgalley and spotted the cover of this one and found myself very intrigued. I’ve finally read it and whilst I enjoyed it, I found that it didn’t give me everything I wanted.
I found the speed of the book to be very slow. Each chapter features a different country and follows Solene and Hayes love affair and in every place, the same thing happened. I was waiting for some kind of revelation between the two of them or some kind of progression of their relationship, but it all fell a little bit flat for me.
Given the stories I’ve seen run in newspapers in the UK about a similar pop star dating older women, I could totally see where the inspiration and the ‘fantasy’ that plays out comes from.
Sadly, the ending also disappointed. Whilst I completely understand the rationale for the way it all comes to its conclusion, I was hoping for more. I think a book has the opportunity to fight for a certain outcome and this didn’t feel like it had any fight, it all just fizzled.
All in all, I could see many people enjoying a book like this, certainly on a beach or by the pool. It’s a perfect steamy summer read, just not quite living up to my expectations.
This was a tumultuous love story which tugged at my emotions and wrung me out.
Solene is a sophisticated, beautiful, French, 39 year old, divorced mother of who by a twist of fate stumbles into the life of 20year old boy band member Hayes. He is a world class pop star known in every corner of the globe and he falls for Solene in a big way. The story follows their story and the effect their relationship has on the people in their lives.
There were so many great elements in this story. The author made me feel the claustrophobia and fear involved with being a part of something so huge as a boy band. She described the scenes of screaming girls so well, I felt tense reading them. The reactions of family and friends to the relationship was realistic. The worries they felt about the impact were warranted, it wasn't a fairytale and that made the story more realistic. The feelings of Solene and Hayes were intense and there was plenty of saucy action.
I did sometimes think their love story was a little over powering. They had an amazing connection but it was a little over played and I thought she strung it out longer than it maybe should have been. However saying that the final scenes were very emotional and I did well up while reading them!
I would have liked to see the Oliver and Hayes storyline play out to the end, there was a lot left unsaid.
Also the ending was a little abrupt for me. I wanted more!
However I fully enjoyed the ride, it was a great insight into celebrity and the costs that it brings with it as well as the absolute highs. This was a really intriguing read, a love story that was so much more.
Love love love love love. Reading this reminded me of the Jilly Cooper and Jackie Collins books I loved in my late teens and early twenties -they need a reread for sure!
To the media, Hayes Campbell is the enigmatic front-man of a record-breaking boyband.
To his fans, he's the boy of their dreams.
To his label, he's gold-dust.
And to Solène Marchand, he's the pretty face that's plastered over her teenage daughter's bedroom wall.
Until a chance meeting throws Hayes and Solène together . . .
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Book review 📚
This book was discussed in great deal with a good friend of mine.
I have so many mixed feelings about this book.
When I started reading it, I had such “after” vibes. I love those books and I read the entire series within a week. They’re a guilty pleasure for me.
Feeling those vibes, I thought I was set for a real “saucy” read
The book is very well written and I did enjoy reading it, but the ending just completely ruined it for me
A 400 page book for…..
anyone who has read it will know what I mean!!
I loved the idea of the book and the storyline and I even got the characters. But I really felt I missed something with the ending.
I wouldn’t want to put anyone off the book. As some people may prefer a neat and tidy ending.
Please read the book to make your own mind 😀
I flew through this and loved every second apart from the sense of impending doom and wondering how and when it was all inevitably going to come crashing down. Delightfully escapist, Solene’s life and ability to travel around the world at the drop of a hat is somewhat fantasist, but it just makes it all the more enjoyable and you find yourself rooting for them despite all their challenges.
Solène only goes to the boyband concert because her ex husband can't take their daughter at the last minute. But at the meet and greet, one of the band's members starts flirting with her. Hayes is handsome, clever, funny and one of the biggest stars in the world. He's also 20 and Solène is 38. When their initial secret meetings turn into a proper relationship, it all gets complicated - especially when the public find out. Can Hayes and Solène go the distance or is their relationship having too much of an effect on the people she cares about most? This is the wildcard of this summer's selection. Think a One Direction member falls in love with an older woman and you'll get the sort of vibe. I can see that some people are going to love this, for me it was a bit infuriating. I wanted to read it because of the Taylor Jenkins Reid blurb (for reasons that are obvious given the first pick of this post!) but I found all the characters irritating to a greater or lesser extent. In addition, this is being shelved as a romance on some vendors and on here and it absolutely isn’t. It has a romance in it yes, but it’s not for reasons that are very spoilery, but you can probably guess. I'm including it here, even though it was a not really for me book - because I think some people are going to devour this and I feel like if I was on a sun lounger around the pool this summer then I would be surrounded by people reading it!
I really enjoyed this book! I like that it turned societal tropes about age-gap relationships on its head, and I enjoyed the authenticity of the fame angle being introduced into the story, too. I found the ending unexpectedly moving, too, which I think made the story feel more real.
I had this book for a few months now, but somehow, I found it hard to express my feelings about this story.
It’s probably one of those books that resonates with me on so many levels and I won’t forget it soon, for sure.
It’s so raw and brings up so many emotions, so much love and heartbreak, but also healing and decisions that are hard to take by Solene, and I was there with her every step of the way.
My romantic heart hopes for a sequel to this beautiful story because I need that happily ever after. If there won’t be one, that’s ok too, because this is a must-read book for anyone that wants to get lost in a beautiful yet interesting romance story.
I must confess that it was the hype that made me read this book and I can certainly see why so many people are very excited about it. It is sheer and utter escapism at time when the world isn't the most comfortable place to live in, It's a pacey read, I read nearly all of it in one sitting, and it definitely gets you turning the pages with it's addictive quality but did I love it? I have to say not. I found the characters a little two dimensional and the story rather preposterous but it does have a certain something and I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't be intrigued to read a sequel (that ending!). If well written but unbelievable romance stories with a generous helping of sex are you're thing then I think you'll love it.
Thoroughly enjoyable read, great subject matter with lots of room for debate. Would recommend this book
I was, once again, seduced by a book cover. I looked at The Idea of You by Robinne Lee and I thought This is going to be Almost Famous and Daisy Jones which to me would have been perfect. What I got was a little less than what I was expecting. I got Daisy Jones meets 50 Shades.
The story focuses on Solene, a single mum of one who is reaching her 40th birthday. When she takes her teenage daughter to a concert for the latest boy band she ends up starting a tempestuous relationship with the Lead singer Hayes Campbell. A man 20 years her junior.
Okay, so far as stories go it isn't bad. The important point that Lee tries to make is that women of a certain age are overlooked and this she does quite well. She has successful women who are independent of men and shows the impact on them, the unfairness of it and the disparity in the way men and women of a similar age are treated.
The Hayes Campbell storyline which is the bulk of the story was a little hard to digest. Mainly because every seen had them having sex in a variety of graphic ways. I did make my vomit face on several occasions. I'm no prude but the way things were phrased had the 'ick' factor.
Overall, The Idea of You is an easy read. It is uncomplicated and is the kind of book that you can take on holiday. It isn't poorly written but due to the amount of sex scenes I personally felt like our protagonist wasn't as well rounded as she could have been.
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Wow, just utterly heated sexy and a bit unnerving. One to shock and make you feel a little bit hot under the collar. I am not sure about this one, as am not sure about the whole young boy with older woman thing plus destroying of marriage I guess I have never been tempted or felt that desire. But it’s an absolute scorcher of a read.
3,5 - 4 stars
To be completly honest with you: I only read this because of Taylor Jenkins Reid. Because she very much loved it. And because I was craving a forbidden romance (I love the trope forbidden romance literally so much it's unhealthy!).
The blurb did not really catch me at first though, because I thought it was a bit weird of a story, but when I started reading I was so so fascinated by the story and the writing style of Robinne Lee. She really caught me with her writing style and the book was overall just so extremly addicting! I read like 200 pages in one sitting and just couldn't stop. Even though the story itself wasn't that thrilling, I still had to read one chapter after the other, because the author really suceeded with making me feel all the emotions the characters felt!
It was an really intense, emotional read and the ending really shattered my heart, because I really felt a connection to the characters (and I really want a Hayes too! Especially because I imagined him to be like Harry Styles haha!)
Would definetly recommend if you like VERY SPICY forbidden romance books (featuring a huge age gap hehe!)
Thank you a thousand times to the publishers who kindly sent the e-arc my way!
'The Idea of You' by Robinee Lee depicts a love affair between Solene Marchand, a 39yr old French/American mum and LA gallery owner, and Hayes, a 20yr old English boy band member. The two meet when Solene escorts her daughter and some friends to a gig and meet and greet, won for the girls by her ex-husband.
The novel is part romance, part erotic fantasy and part a meditation on fame, age and societies morals. Solene is a very glamourous woman who wears designer clothes, lives in a beautiful home in LA and is knowledgable about the art world (some of which is mentioned in the book). Hayes is dark, brooding and skilled!
Whilst this isn't the type of book I normally read, I did enjoy it. Lee clearly knows about designer fashion and art. She has depicted Solene as a strong woman who tries to make the right decisions. Both her and Hayes are three dimensional characters who have multiple reasons for the relationship that go beyond sexual attraction. Setting the novel in the world of mega fame, where a picture of a foot can produce millions of likes and lude suggestions, gave the novel the necessary conflict to make the reader uncertain how everything will end.