“A little bit Eat Pray Love, a little bit Who Do You Think You Are?”

I went into this book expecting some frivolous fun, literary romcom as it were. And it does have fun bits, it does have romance and comedy. But it also delves into religion, culture, history, generational trauma, in an accessible and approachable manner. These were all handled with sensitivity and respect, and it’s clear that the author has a lot of love for India.

I knew next to nothing of the Indian Partition before I started reading, and what I read here piqued my interest enough to motivate me to do additional research myself. I can’t say that of many other books in this genre!

I adored Baby’s grandmother and their relationship was so beautiful. It really made me lonely for my own nana. Her grandfather’s story is heartbreaking, and I appreciate that both sides of his person are shown, the before and the after, illustrating the effects of his experience.

I would have loved to see more of her cousin Ruchi. Would gladly read a follow up dedicated to just her.

My only disappointment relates to Baby’s love interest. Her Indian adventure was supposed to be one of self discovery, but she spent near the duration going weak at the knees over a man. Never mind how unrealistic it felt that a total stranger should devote his time to her journey, I was disappointed by the knight in shining armour trope. It was cute, and I understand a woman travelling alone may not feel safe, but I had hoped she would be more independent. So much of the book was devoted to highlighting the historic misogyny in the culture and traditions, so her reliance on this random man felt rather ironic. For me, it diluted the message of the powerful woman, the survivor, the “warrior goddess”. It’s a shame.