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A moving collection of poems that explores girlhood, womanhood, culture, shame, sexual violence , the sufferings and hurts as well as what it is like to be a Muslim immigrant daughter and language. I thought that it was a beautiful , raw and tender book. The poems cover a lot of topics and each poem is told in its own unique way.
I enjoyed reading about her limitations in her mother tongue and how that translates into her life and the poems too.
However, most of the time I didn’t really understand what I was reading and what the author was trying to pass across. I’m left feeling like the whole book went over my head. I struggled with the structure and format as well and couldn’t tell if I was reading it how it should be read.
If you love thought provoking poetry, this is the one for you.
Thank you to the author and Netgalley for the ARC.
An excellent and interesting poetry collection about being a woman, dangers and shame that resonate outside the Muslim culture and religion for sure. Well crafted, evocative and very visual poetry. Sometimes a bit beyond me, but that's just how I gel with poetry.
taken by the cover and title i found myself wanting to check out Girls That Never Die by Safia Elhillo. the poetry does feel a bit posey, affected, style over substance at times
An incredible collection of poetry exploring a range of themes and motifs, thoroughly enjoyable and some were very moving.
Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for the chance to read this ARC.
A hugely important poetry collection that brings to life a background and experience not often read about -explorations of girlhood, FGM, shame and cultural expectations. I raced through the collection (flowing prose).
Some parts were really punching, such as being judged by the male driver in a taxi:
'ready to confirm whatever he decides i am . . . my loosened hair smells of coal floats over the backseat like smoke'
Also, exciting to see such top quality poetry available on Netgalley!
Inspirational as well as stunningly written. This was an honour, and I feel that I have learned a lot from the poet here.
This was a really moving poetry collection. The poems flowed into one another really well, and the different visuals for some of the poems were so captivating. A really heartbreaking and healing journey.
A beautiful collection of poetry, raw and at times visceral. Provides a new perspective on a culture/experience different from my own, but also touches on topics I'm familiar with such as misogyny and sexual assault. This is definitely one I will revisit.
Elhillo has crafted a beautiful collection of moving pieces on faith, womanhood, community, and survival. At turns haunting and inspiring, she wields language like a master painter. I found myself laughing, smiling, and tearing up at the works in the collection. So many beautiful, vital verses here that feel so powerful they almost demand to be re-read. I will definitely be adding this to my collection.
What a gorgeous poetry collection to start the year with. Elhillo writes about being a Muslim woman and what that means to her, how it relates to the world around her.
It’s also about shame, especially what that means for women & girls. An extremely heavy topic covered is FGM, it looms large and unaddressed by the subjects in these poems. It is something that is done but never spoken about, a perpetual cycle of violence often carried out by those victim to it. I found it extremely chilling.
Elhillo was raised in the US but her family is from Sudan and she muses on how these two identities live within her. This collection is both tender & angry and made for a reading experience I don’t think I’ve had yet.
Will be so keen to pick up the authors other work, this has really piqued my interest!
beautiful, raw, tender & heartbreaking. i love poetry that makes you feel seen in the most terrible & deepest parts of you that you thought you would never be able to talk about but then see the words spelled out perfectly in front of you & think one day you might change your mind. ‘everything we allowed to be done to us in silence. to ask for help would be to speak and of course we never spoke’ i’m itching to get my hands on a physical copy so that i can annotate & read & reread every time i am sad or lonely or need to feel comforted & understood the same way i reach for bluets by maggie nelson
Girls That Never Die by Safia Elhillo is a triumphant collection which unpicks, displays and criticises what it means to be a girl, particularly one raised across more than one culture.
Elhillo focuses on the use of a name - what it means, where it is from, what is both taken and bestowed when we are named and how we are shaped thereafter. From here, Elhillo's poetry and prose spans these different experiences with an emphasis on how girls are made women in their innocence as their innocence is stripped or 'cut'.
For once, this is a poetry collection that doesn't centre a Western narrative either. I believe it is the first time FGM has been mentioned and written about, and I admire Elhillo for tackling this stigma, to criticise why FGM is taboo when we know it happens and forever alters the girls who suffer with the consequences.
Thus, Girls That Never Die is incredibly important. Reminiscent of Warsan Shire, but unique in Elhillo's subject matter and voice.
Now this is a poetry collection, Arresting, beautiful and honest, I savoured each and every poem.
Girlhood, womanhood, shame, family, heritage and growing pains are so well encapsulated in Elhillo's carefully curated words and intentional use of form and space.
I look forward to reading more of Elhillo's poems.