"Sometimes, when something sad happens, people can push it so far down because it hurts too much.
That’s why Mommy doesn’t remember."
This is something so saddening for a child of KG or middle grade to cope up with when they have their parent/parents but lost them to trauma.

This is a very touching story of a refugee boy who flee from his native country and lives in UK with his mother. His mother who being adult has watched so much to survive and hence affected from PTSD. Her condition made her so tense and dull. Adnan tried his best from his imagination to bring her mother, her happiness back. After all, There is nothing more important and satisfying than watching your parents happy and smiling all the way.

It is a sensitive matter which I personally can relate with. Diala Brisly with her perspicacious illustrations defined the writings of Mark and Steven even more finely.

A good take away from this poignant picture book is "Sometimes, when you lose hope, you can’t give up. You must keep trying."

What an odd book. I don't know what I was expecting, but this was not it.

Adnan is a small boy who, with his mother, escaped a terrible reality. As refugees in a new and much safer place, Adnan is adapting, but his mother is not. She has collapsed into herself and is unable to face the memories of their ordeal. Adnan decides the only way to reach his mother is to help her remember. By memory, he constructs a model of their old home and neighborhood.

Is this really the best way to deal with such an experience? I have no idea, but it wouldn't be my first choice when dealing with someone clearly suffering from depression and PTSD. Sure, remembering the good of the before would be helpful, but would this alone shake someone out of their paralyzing shock? I have so many questions.

The illustrations were interesting, but a little too stark, dark and chaotic for my tastes.

This was a good book. This child is trying to help his mother remember the love even through such a loss. He tries so hard and it isn't easy. I liked the feelings behind this book. I didn't (and feel younger readers would feel the same) understand the stories fully that the child was talking about.

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I am not ashamed to say that I cried while reading Adnan by Mark Arrigo and loved this entire book from the powerful impactful message it imparts to the readers but also the artwork. I will definitely be buying a copy for my own personal library and also recommend this to all my friends.

Wow, this book is powerful! Adnan is a child hoping to help their mommy remember. They’ve had devastation in their life as they are refugees. They have lost their family and now it’s just a Dan and Mom. Mom is sad and Adnan is sure if he can rebuild illustrations of their own life then he can bring his mom back around to happiness. This book is absolutely heartbreaking and absolutely beautiful. It’s a book. I’m sure there are many children that need to feel seen in whatever their new environment may be.

Timely, tender and poignant, profound and empathic, a book about mental health, PTSD, depression, memories, family, love, refugees, home, the right to safety and shelter and understanding.
Equally recommend to children and adults.
Almost a 5 star. I think the plot missed/lacked a few beats.

Such a heartbreaking story and a very relevant one in the current situation.War only destroys not just countries and places but most importantly it breaks humans.Adnan is a young boy whose life is destroyed by war and he trying to piece it together for his mother. A beautiful,heartfelt story with amazing illustrations.

Such a powerful book about Adnan, a young Syrian refugee who lost everything in the war, including his father and sister. Relocated now to the UK, he nearly loses his mother too to PTSD and depression. Adnan's bright spirit and love overcome all as he uses his creativity to bring his mother out of the depths of despond.

The haunting dark illustrations in the first part of the book break through to more joyful scenes as Adnan and his mother find a new purpose and a new home.

Syrian artist Diala Brisly, a former refugee herself, infuses this important short story for children 5-8 with the truth of her own experiences. ADNAN the book is a companion to the short same-named award-winning film; both should be in every school and public library in the land!

Adnan is an emotionally-charged children's book about a little boy helping his mother remember their previous life. It's moving with such an eerie atmosphere in all of the illustrations. A poignant story about the heartaches refugees go through when starting over in a new country.

I loved the little shared perspective on this topic of mental health. As a person whose parent struggles with a mental health illness, I understand this firsthand. I love that space is being made this topic. Even through their struggles, little Adnan persisted on finding a way to help his mommy remember. I love his fierce determination and gentleness towards his mother. This was such a moving read!

I received an advance reader copy of this book to read in exchange for an honest review via netgalley and the publishers.

Adnan: The Boy Who Helped His Mommy Remember is a heartfelt story about a young boy called Adnan who longs for his mummy to reconnect with him and life in general. Adnans mummy has been in a deep depression since fleeing their home country due to war and conflict. She lost her other child and husband, leaving the family torn in half. Adnan recreates the memories of this time and events using household items to help his mother remember and see how much he loves her and needs her. He won't give up until she comes back to him and makes a special book dedicated to helping her. When his mummy finds the book, she sees how much her little boy needs her, and it brings her hope and realisation and helps bring her through her PTSD and depression.
This books illustrations are so powerful and captivating and really pull at your heart and soul. This brings to light the trauma and suffering refugees face and the ordeal they go through to live a free life we all take for granted.

Reasonable effort, but not the pleasurable read exactly. A kid keeps recreating his recent past for his mother, worried that she has clammed up and entered a lifeless state because she cannot remember key things. The issue is, of course, the pair are refugees, and she'd probably rather forget a heck of a lot, so it's probably not the best if he rebuilds in the living room their home buildings, prior to the bombing, or recreates the sea voyage when he nearly drowned, or re-enacts the silent threat and helpless panic of the overnight drives to safety. However, if the mother is just a beat away from remembering the power, prospect, creativity and compassion in the lad, then it actually is a very good thing indeed. People with a vested interest in getting the refugee story under the eyes of children will find little to fault here. For me its clever twist still didn't turn this into something getting a personal recommendation.

Thank you to NetGalley, the authors, and illustrators for this arc. This is a poignant, beautiful story that introduces children to the complexity refugees face as they try to heal and start anew. Definitely a wonderful addition to any classroom.

I received this book for free. This does not impact my review in any shape or form.

Adnan: The Boy Who Helped His Mommy Remember, by Mark Arrigo and Steven Chatterton, and Illustrated by Diana Brisly, is a children’s story about a boy who, after escaping a war finding a refuge in a strange place, is trying to help his mother remember him. From using “trash” found around the city, to recreating some of the happiest and most heartbreaking memories from objects in house, Adnan perseveres, even if it may seem hopeless.

I loved how all encompassing Adnan’s mother was to him. After all, when you’re a child, most of the time, your parents are the ones you lean on to provide safety. Of course, this can be any caretaker, but growing up, you learn to lean on the people around you. So for him to take on this role when he’s this young demonstrates a level of maturity that most people will never know.

Moreover, I enjoy how, in the beginning, the illustrations are faded, as though Adnan doesn’t care about the outside world around him, just as long as his mother is okay. The more he interacts with her, regardless of whether or not she remembers, becomes more vibrant. It’s like nothing exists outside of her. It begs the question what would’ve happened had his mother refused to leave her depression, had he had to fend for himself as so many other children have done.

A beautiful, moving, heartbreaking story. Beautifully illustrated by Syrian artist Diala Brisly who draws on her own experiences of being a refugee.

This was a heartwarming story about a young boy trying to help his mother remember and I loved it, it's definitely best to go into it knowing little other than that as it's short enough that it won't impact on your enjoyment to go in blindly. I feel as though it is a good introduction to young children to the conflicts going on in the world today with a stunning watercolour art style

I was sent this e-Arc on Netgalley in exchange for a fair and honest review.

What an emotional and thought provoking story of the journey of Adnan and his Mother as they flee their home country for safety. Once safe Adnan begins another journey to try and make his Mother remember everything that happened so that they can try to be happy together again.

The story has been written in such a way as to make it understandable for young children. It introduces them to a perilous journey that too many families are forced to make in order to flee war torn countries to find safety. It also shows the lasting impact that trauma can have.

This is such an important book for children to read or have read to them, especially in this current climate. I would recommend reading it with your child so you can answer any questions they may have or support them in understanding the tough subject matter.

4★
“Sometimes, when something sad happens, people can push the memory far away because it hurst so much”.

Adnan is a young refugee whose mother is so traumatised she can’t get out of bed.

[My Goodreads review includes an illustration with the caption:]
“That’s why Mommy doesn’t remember.”

Adnan has gathered a wagon-load of things people have thrown away, and he’s written up a ‘Save Mommy Plan’. He is full of ideas to recreate some of their trip to jog her memory. He thinks he needs to do this to help her.

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“ ‘I have a plan and it’s going to work. Then Mommy won’t be sad. Then we can be happy again.’”

Adnan can’t wait to show off their old city.

[My Goodreads review includes an illustration with the caption:]
“ ‘Look, Mommy, this was our home.
This was my grandparents’ house. We visited every Sunday.
This was Dad’s store. He fixed computers.
This was where my sister, Amena, and I went to school.”

I’m not sharing the heartbreaking picture where he has drawn the family on two separate pieces of paper. His buildings have all fallen flat from the bombs, and his father and sister are on a piece of paper he holds high in the air, saying “ ‘That’s when four became two. That’s when you said we had to run.’”

Mommy still looks dazed, so he tries another tack. He takes a long scarf, stretches it over the furniture, and turns on a fan to recreate the wind over the ocean. They are escaping! It’s a rough sea and he falls into the ocean.

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“ ‘You pulled me out of the water. You saved my life, Mommy!’”

He’s tried everything he can think of, and when he goes to sleep, he dreams of happier times when his mother used to sing to him at home.

[My Goodreads review includes an illustration with the caption:]
“ ‘I dream of playing with Mommy. I dream of riding my bicycle. I dream that one day these won’t be dreams.’”

He is determined to show her how they got to their new home and makes a path through their new home, pretending to go by the various waypoints to explain where they are now.

Finally, his mother finds his book and realises how hard he has worked.

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“ ‘My little Adnan. He did all this for me.’”

Of course he did, just as she protected him through the harrowing ordeal they both went through to get to their new home, because they love each other.

“‘Now I remember.’”

[My Goodreads review includes an illustration with the caption:]
“Sometimes when you love someone enough, you can reach down into their sadness and pull them back.”

When I began reading this, I was frankly startled to see this little boy recreating the bombing of their home and the loss of their family. It seemed as if it would be a terrible shock rather than helpful. But I realise he thinks she forgot and that’s why she’s unhappy in their new home.

It dawns on her that her son remembers all of this, yet still loves her and wants her to be happy with him in their new home . That helps her begin her recovery.

This was a short, award-winaning film before it became a picture book, which is why I know that Syria and the UK are the countries referred to. The book itself makes it more universal, which I think is a good thing. We have refugees all over the world who have lost families and homes. This is a good way to share that message and encourage us to help them recover, too.

There are photos and a long discussion at the end of the book for adults, with more information about refugees. They end by saying:

“Love can change lives.
We can all Choose Love.”

This is a link to information about the film
https://www.adnanshortfilm.com/

And this is to a short preview for the film.
https://vimeo.com/425203037

Thanks to NetGalley and Frances Lincoln Children’s Books for the copy for review.

This book is amazing and it left me with a tear in my eye. It's a very beautiful, very powerful and very important story to tell and for children to learn from. I highly recommend reading this book and talking about this topic with kids!

Thoughts:
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily. This is such a sweet but quite heartbreaking book from a more deep perspective. The illustrations are beautiful and Adnan is able to show us what they went through while having to flee their home and losing his father and sibling without being too intense so that it is suitable to explain the complex issue to younger readers. I appreciated the choose love page at the end to teach us as adults the more complex natures and showing an organisation that helps if we want to do something to help other children like Adnan.

Favourite Quote:
"Sometimes, things get thrown away when they have no purpose. But we found a new home a new purpose."