Wow. I’ve read a few books around “death with dignity” and “the right to die”, but none have hit me quite as hard as this little memoir. Short enough to read in a single sitting, it lacks unnecessarily flowery prose, without being cold or inured to a life with chronic illness, and looming death.

Perhaps because I have a particular interest in chronic invisible illness and pain management, reading about Diana Williams’s journey offers an unblinking look at the frustrations and anger of patients with chronic pain and debilitating illness. The doctor hopping, the promised fad cures, the expenses. I am often surprised by how easily charlatans in the USA get to call themselves “doctor”, and how many “treatments” are allowed based on underpowered, poorly-controlled studies.

I did see a reviewer complaining that too much time is spent on Diana’s life journey, and not enough of her experience with Dignitas. Personally, knowing her story made all the difference to me. I can read about Dignitas on the internet. But Diana’s painstaking experiences, and her repeated efforts to live a beautiful, expansive life, adds way more texture to her memoir.

I found myself getting so angry at the way the author’s illness(es) were handled. I really, really feel that if someone who wasn’t obsessed with “healing pathways”, “energies”, mould, and whatnot, were to have a proper look at her… maybe they could have helped her better, before her life became one of pain and debility.

So for me, while we know that the memoir ultimately ends with the author’s death, it is so much more than a book about assisted suicide - it is a book about wellness and illness, the market for cures, and the far-reaching effects of untreated chronic illness.

Traveling Solo is the story of Diana's struggle with chronic illness, navigating the healthcare system, and making the decision to end her life through assisted dying. I sobbed every step of the way with her. Through her story, she has given us permission to acknowledge just how difficult it is to be chronically ill and feel like you have nowhere to turn. She lets us know that sometimes, we have suffered enough and it isn't wrong or cowardly or selfish to want the suffering to end. Traveling Solo is poignant, moving, and compassionate. While Diana's journey to physician assisted suicide will leave you begging her to make a different decision, hang on a little longer, try one more thing- you come to respect her decision and her right to decide how she lives and dies.

This was a tough one to read, for many reasons. I felt for the author and her years of suffering at the hands of a mysterious illness. I was frustrated at the lack of certainty that the doctors exhibited, leading the author to put her faith (and money) in untested and unusual healing methods that turned out to be bogus medicine. I empathized with her friends and family who desperately wanted to help her, but either couldn't or didn't know how. And, of course, I was appalled that the situation had gotten so dire that the author felt her life would be better ended than lived in unexplained amounts of pain. I was upset for her, that so many things she loved - jobs, hiking, running - were taken away from her because her illness had no name or cure. I was impressed by her willingness to force herself out of her comfort zone, both physically and mentally, in order to start the program at the jail where she saw a need and worked hard to fill it. I hope that, despite her illness, she knows the good she did in her life and that she is now at peace.

This book will leave you feeling lots of emotions. As you travel the life of Diana Williams you will respect her desire to end her life with assistance. She wanted only the best for her family and her health was declining. A must read for anyone experiencing diseases in their family.

The title is misleading, but also apt. When I first requested this book, I initially thought it was about loving solo travel and how to do it safely. Upon actually reading the book's description, I felt misled, however, as I devoured this book, I found that Diana Williams is truly traveling alone. Her pain, her anguish, and her medical maladies put her on an island. Her family can't understand, doctors can't narrow it down, and her friends just can't relate, causing Diana to feel adrift as her world gets smaller and darker.

Diana Williams is a testament to why people should continue to be the shepherds of their own ship, rather than society dictating the life path they should follow. Amid the continuing controversial debate about life, i.e. abortion and assisted medical suicide, Diana demonstrates that no matter how bad things can get, it can get worse with no end in sight. As a familiar saying goes, "I'm here for a good time, not a long time", and Diana tried her best to have a good time for as long as she could, but in the end, life became an endless rollercoaster of false starts that she just didn't want to continue on with; it is hard to have unrelenting hope in the face of uncertainty when it comes to your health and ability to take a step each day. You should be free to release yourself from the cycle, rather than continue on.

When I first finished the book, I was a bit annoyed with Diana, to be honest. She began to get on my nerves as the chapters got closer and closer to the end. I'm not sure why I felt annoyed with her, or why I continued to ask, "how can she afford to live in this expensive city, in this big house when a few years ago she was so worried about finances??" I took a few days to think it over and see if I was still annoyed with her or if it was just my mood at the time, and found it was my mood and the sudden circumstances I was in. Upon reflection, maybe my mood was reflective of Diana as she began to get more and more aggravated with the medical professionals and get-healthy-quickly schemes that seem to abound and bombard those desperate for a respite from their pain. I am not sure, but I am curious to learn how others felt about Diana at the end.

In this memoir, the author explores her experience having a long-term chronic illness and the journey that eventually leads her to decide on choosing to die with assistance at Dignitas, a Swiss organization that performs medical aid in dying. Ms. Williams' experience in the medical system seeing multiple medical providers and unscrupulous charlatans while undergoing numerous medical procedures at their behest did get a little repetitive at times but then again-- imagine how much more frustrating it must have felt to experience that as opposed to simply reading about it. I enjoyed the descriptions of life outside of the illness as well. The discussion of medical aid in dying/assisted suicide is one that is near and dear to my heart, as a family member is currently considering it as an option, so I was eager to read another person's experience with the same organization. I understand where Ms. Williams was coming from and I wish her peace in her death. I'd recommend this book for anyone curious about assisted suicide or who doesn't understand why one might want to seek it.


Thank you to Netgalley for the ARC.

The author tackles a very timely and personal subject in choosing to end her life. I respect her journey and her ultimate decision. It was a thoughtful review life and struggles. I will be thinking about this book for a long time.

I found this book both interesting and informative, on the subject of assisted dying. I could really sympathize with Diana, when she was continously being forced off by doctors, but never seeming to to get better.
A very emotional book, and very well written.

Plagued by years of living with an undiagnosed illness, the late author Diane Williams made the decision to end her life and chose the day she would die with dignity. That practice not being legal in the U.S., she connected with Dignitas, a nonprofit in Switzerland, where this process is legal for individuals who are of sound mind and are able to personally administer their own potion, no one else can assist. (This latter point I learned from another book - In Love: A Memoir of Love and Loss by Amy Bloom.) About 80 percent of the book focuses on the challenges Diane Williams experienced not only with her illness that had no distinct pattern - there were periods of utter exhaustion, headaches, and later memory issues, but the added stress of not being able to get a true diagnosis. As well, she tried numerous costly unconventional and unproven routes doing her own internet research that seemed a bit suspect, that didn’t yield a specific diagnosis either. The author’s decision to go the death with dignity route - with Dignitas - occurs toward the end of the book. While there was brief information about how Dignitas works, I felt the book could been a lot stronger if more insights and details could have been shared about this part. (In that regard, Amy Bloom’s book shares a lot more insight that may be useful to readers.) I also felt that since this was the one major decision that the author felt she could and did make amidst all the other unknowns of her undiagnosed illness, that more focus would have been vested in this section. But I do understand the magnitude of what she was dealing resulting from thr overwhelming and final decision she made. I hope this book does “inspire meaningful conversations” as the author desired. Many thanks to the author, publisher, and NetGalley for the opportunity to read and review this book.

Don't you wish you could understand the meaning of the term "dying well"? This book gives every reader all the information they need in preparation for the final life.

Thank you NetGalley for allowing me to read this ARC in exchange for an honest review


Title: Traveling Solo

Rating: ★★★★

In "Traveling Solol" author Diana William delivers a poignant and beautifully written narrative that chronicles the life of a woman who defies the odds in the face of chronic illness and misdiagnosis for over three decades. Through her struggles, triumphs, and ultimate decision to take control of her destiny through assisted suicide, this book offers a compelling exploration of autonomy, resilience, and the complexities of living with chronic illness.

The protagonist's journey is nothing short of inspiring. From the initial despair of being misdiagnosed to the relentless pursuit of answers and treatments, readers are taken on an emotional rollercoaster as she navigates the challenges of her condition. Despite the countless setbacks and moments of doubt, her unwavering determination shines through, painting a portrait of strength and resilience that is both admirable and deeply moving.

What sets this narrative apart is its unflinching portrayal of the protagonist's decision to end her life through assisted suicide. Through thoughtful prose and raw emotion, the author delicately navigates the sensitive subject matter, presenting it not as a defeat, but as a powerful assertion of autonomy and agency over one's own body. The decision is portrayed not as an act of weakness, but as a courageous choice made after careful consideration and reflection—a testament to the protagonist's unwavering resolve and unyielding spirit.

The writing itself is exquisite, with lyrical prose that captivates the reader from the very first page. The author has a remarkable ability to evoke a wide range of emotions, from heartache and despair to hope and triumph, making for a deeply immersive reading experience. Each sentence is imbued with meaning and depth, inviting readers to contemplate the complexities of the human experience and the fragility of life itself.

While "Traveling Solo" is undeniably a heartbreaking read, it is also a profoundly empowering one. Through the protagonist's journey, readers are reminded of the importance of self-determination and the inherent value of every individual's lived experience. It is a story that lingers long after the final page is turned, challenging readers to reconsider their own beliefs and perceptions surrounding illness, autonomy, and the right to choose.

In conclusion, "Traveling Solo" is a beautifully written and deeply affecting story of courage, resilience, and the power of self-determination. With its compelling narrative and thought-provoking themes, it is a book that resonates on a profound level, leaving an indelible mark on the reader's heart and mind. Highly recommended for anyone seeking a powerful and thought-provoking exploration of the human experience.

This poignant memoir delves into the journey of living with an undiagnosed chronic illness, navigating through suffering, and finding solace in surrender. Diana's struggle with debilitating symptoms, futile medical treatments, and the search for understanding highlights the challenges of unseen illnesses. Diana says “Not for the first time I wished I had a visible, bleeding wound that people could see, and that would elicit understanding and sympathy”

Despite the sadness, her story is laced with humour and love from supportive family and friend who are understanding, compassionate, empathic and by her side through decades of difficulty pain and distress.

Facing relentless suffering, conflicting medical opinions and no answers, Diana turns to Dignitas for assisted dying, realizing that surrendering can bring peace and strength. Her narrative prompts reflection on society's approach to death and the need for compassion in end-of-life decisions.

Diana's hope to shift cultural attitudes towards death and dying resonates strongly, advocating for the right to die with dignity. Diana says “Deciding to end one’s life is a personal choice. It should also be a human right” Her bravery in taking control of her final days serves as a powerful testament to the importance of autonomy in such decisions, I think Traveling Solo will inspire meaningful conversations, and I hope in the future more people will be able to have a dignified death.

This is a difficult read about a woman who had been suffering with a debilitating illness (MS) for many years, and then decided to end her life. Dignitas is a Swiss organization that does not require an individual be terminally ill to end one's life. After pursuing all available treatments, the author connects with Dignitas and, as per their legal protocol, makes arrangements to go to Switzerland and end her life. Her recollections and emotions all the way are poignant. There is no commentary or input from family members or friends. Her own exploration of her right to die in the face of insufferable circumstances is the subject of this book.