The author's real life experiences and humor alongside a plethora of information make this book both insightful and enjoyable. While the first part of the book feels like a general relationship guide, it still covers topics relevant to the aspec community very well; this makes the guide incredibly useful to anyone regardless of who is reading it. It touches on important themes like intersectionality, consent, autonomy, compromise, and healthy boundaries, with clear explanations, examples, and red flags; each tool also provides useful reflection sections. The second part of the book puts these concepts, or tools, into action. It discusses how to disclose your identity, the complexity of platonic relationships, healthy relationships, and how to end relationships. Overall, this is a great resource for the aspec community and those who know members in the community.

A valuable resource for anyone curious about asexuality and aromanticism, anyone wondering whether they might be ace or aro, or anyone wanting to support an ace or aro friend or family member

I really liked this. As someone who is ace, I really appreciate having books where people talk about their experiences so I can learn from them and also feel less isolated because I don't know anyone else who is, and so I turned to books. I think this book is well written and I think it is good for people who want to read stories from people who have a similar sexuality to them and learn a little more about life through the lens of someone else.