2.5 stars

Unfortunately, I was unable to finish Karma & Kismet. When I initially picked up this book, I expected it to delve into a rich exploration of various cultures and spiritual practices. Instead, it turned out to be more of a memoir, chronicling the author’s life journey—one shaped by overcoming the trauma of an abusive father and seeking personal healing. In many ways, it functions as a coming-of-age narrative rooted in resilience and self-discovery.

While I appreciate the author’s courage in sharing such an intimate story, I struggled to connect with Michael’s journey. I ultimately decided to set the book aside at around the 60% mark. It may have been a matter of timing or simply not being the right fit for me. I acknowledge that there could be readers who will find deep resonance and inspiration in Shandler’s quest for healing and transformation.

Thank you to NetGalley and Koehler Books for providing me with an e-book in exchange for my honest review. While this book wasn’t for me, I appreciate the opportunity to experience it and recognise that it could hold value for others on their journeys.

**Book Review: "Karma and Kismet"**

"Karma and Kismet" is a captivating memoir that takes readers on an evocative journey through the sixties and seventies, beautifully intertwining themes of identity, fate, and the quest for belonging. Author Shandler’s narrative is both heartfelt and introspective, offering a deeply personal yet universally resonant story that invites readers to reflect on their own paths.

From the outset, Shandler’s vivid prose immerses us in a rich tapestry of experiences, echoing the immersive qualities found in Paul Theroux’s travel writings. The memoir is peppered with authentic characters and genuine conflicts, creating a vibrant backdrop against which Shandler explores the complexities of karma—the consequences of past actions—and kismet, or fate, in shaping his life’s journey.

One of the memoir’s strengths lies in its honest portrayal of the challenges faced along the way. Shandler's courage in confronting his past and his quest for meaning are both relatable and inspiring. The narrative balances moments of pathos with a sense of joy, encouraging readers to reflect on their own experiences and consider how fate has influenced their lives.

The dialogues throughout the book are meaningful and poignant, adding depth to the storytelling and inviting introspection. Shandler’s observations are not just reflections on his journey but also resonate with broader themes of connection and belonging. His encouragement to step outside of comfort zones is a powerful reminder of the transformative potential of travel and self-discovery.

"Karma and Kismet" is a heartwarming read that celebrates acceptance and the complexities of human experience. It challenges readers to confront their own identities and consider the roles that karma and fate play in their lives. The book leaves a lasting impression, fostering a sense of joy and introspection that lingers long after the last page is turned.

In conclusion, Shandler’s memoir is a beautifully crafted narrative that will resonate with anyone who has ever grappled with their place in the world. "Karma and Kismet" is not just a travel memoir; it is a profound exploration of the human condition, making it a must-read for those seeking inspiration and connection in their own lives. Highly recommended!

Told with humility and grace, Karma and Kismet is a memoir, a biography, a slice of history, as well as a coming of age which is engaging, genuine, brutally honest and a wonderful look at spirituality, communities and the many people who grace life’s highways.
Born into a South Africa where apartheid was in full flourish, to parents who were damaged by the Second World War: his mother experiencing the horrific ‘Kristallnacht’ of Austria, his father drafted into the Army, serving in Europe, family life was lived on the edge, never knowing when his father, a man of unpredictable rages, was to lash out.
Dysfunctional in every aspect, Gary Fuchs’ family life was far from happy; brutal beatings by this father, domestic violence and a mother who simply could not cope, saw him being sent by his father to Oudthoorn Boys High at the age of 13 years, far from his home and family.
Many years later, living in Canada thanks to his Uncles who had a thriving business there, having learned many of life’s bitter lessons, he is still wondering who he is and where he fits into anything life, so far, has to offer.
University beckons and with that comes his first Hallucinogenic experience described in clear, almost poetic language. There seemed to be a deeper and wider understanding that perhaps there was a different pathway to follow and one that may hopefully, bring with it answers to so many of the questions he needed to answer.
Michael Shandler describes his life journey into a world of peace and prosperity with a very calm and rare compassion, as he set out on a vastly different life pathway than ever imagined. Moving into the Yogic trend prevalent during the 1960’s and 1970’s he become immersed in spirituality, travelling to India and then joining a remote community in Canada on Cortez Island.
These early steps saw him meet his future wife and her family who opened their home and heart to him, giving him a loving and accepting family. The birth of their daughters saw change once again, and the charm of living and being one of the organisers of several spiritual homes, centers and events bought with it a growing is disillusionment with the varying philosophies, personal agendas and Guru’s once admired.
Once again a pathway back to University was opened up which Shandler took, leading him into a world of stability and prosperity. He was present at the death of his father and can now look back over the years without regret or recrimination.
Karma and Kismet is recommended as an excellent memoir told in a very engaging manner.

DNF at 33%

This book turned out to be quite different from what I anticipated. I expected it to be filled with inspiring messages, but instead, it mainly recounts the author's life story. I was looking forward to exploring various cultures and religions, but I found myself reading mostly about his school transitions and family challenges. Unfortunately, I don't think I'll be able to finish it.