This is not an easy book to read through as it attempts to dismantle the power structures within churches and Christian institutions that end up silencing women. What you find in this book is a compelling case that documents how and why Christian women have been mistreated and the lasting effects it has had on both female victims and the way that churches and ministries function today. While there is much to think through in terms of the theological arguments that the author presents—some of which may garner divergent opinions among Christians—the real strength of this book is in the practical resources that it offers, along with the first-hand accounts of Christian women who have been hurt, abused, and misused by the churches where they served or ministered. It is truly tragic when the body of Christ becomes an unsafe place for half of His people. Advocating for why systems and beliefs need to change in our own churches in order to better treat women the way that Jesus did, it is evident that the author approaches this topic with conviction and humility.

Although there are tinges of cultural feminism wrapped around concepts of biblical femininity, the book still serves to act as a voice for those who have lost their individual and collective voices within Christian institutions, sheerly due to their status as a woman. Despite readers’ stances on women in leadership, what is most heartbreaking are the accounts where women have pleaded for help and have been accused of bringing abuse upon themselves. Dr. Bauman earnestly implores the church to wake up and see how they are harming women and provides ways in which men can educate themselves. Calling all Christians to a higher standard, Safe Church recounts the need for believers to take care of one another and to watch out for those who are most impacted by sexism and misogyny. Ministry professionals, lay leaders, and concerned Christians will all benefit by taking the time to listen to women’s stories, review survey results depicting horrific statistics, and commit to protecting women from harm in our congregations and ministries.

My husband and I are reading this book as we both try to extract ourselves from the tangle we’ve gotten into with purity culture and some of the marriage books that have damaged our marriage. I refer to teachings that focus almost exclusively on the male experience within relationship.

This book is healing beyond words! It’s hers to read - and it should be. The truth of many female experiences within the church have too long been ignored.

Thank you Dr Bauman for writing this book!

May we know better and do better.

“Safe Church” by Dr. Andrew J. Bauman is an eye-opening and powerful read for anyone passionate about making Christian communities safer and more equal. Bauman, a counselor and former pastor, dives into the tough realities of sexism and abuse in the church. He shares insights from his research and heartfelt interviews with almost 3,000 women, shining a light on stories that often go unheard—stories of people hurt by harmful theological beliefs and practices.

As a therapist, I found Bauman’s perspective deeply meaningful. He prioritizes listening to women’s voices and tackles the ways misogyny can hide behind a biblical façade. This connects strongly with values of empathy and validation that are so important in counseling. What I love most is that he doesn’t just call out the issues; he also provides practical, thoughtful steps to create healthier, more equitable church environments. It’s not just theory—it’s actionable and inspiring.

Leaders like Dr. Dan Allender describe this book as “a tour de force for more honest and holy conversation.” I couldn’t agree more. “Safe Church” isn’t just a book; it’s a call for change and healing, and I highly recommend it to anyone looking to create safer spaces for everyone.