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This was a really fantastic, accessible, interactive book that gives the layperson a starting point of understanding about narcissism. It allows time and space for reflection which is a fab way to process and practically engage with the new information. A really great balance of facts and case studies!

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I found this book deeply emotional and truly eye-opening. I’ve long struggled to recognise and accept my own childhood trauma and the impact it has had on my adult life.

The descriptions of trauma triangles were particularly helpful in understanding how I can manage the challenges within my family life and the constant guilt I feel.

Dr Sarah Davies is an exceptional writer. She tackles this difficult topic in a way that is both easy to follow and deeply compassionate. Her empathy shines through, and I believe it’s because she has experienced similar struggles herself.

I also appreciated the reflections at the end of each chapter. They provided space for the key points to really sink in and offered practical ways to apply the information to my own life. I plan to reread the book in a journal so I can write these reflections down.

The chapters on parenting and advice for friends and loved ones were particularly useful. I’m planning to ask my husband to read them as well.

When I write reviews, I always try to find something that could be improved to keep things fair and well-rounded, but honestly, I struggled to find any faults with this book.

I just want to thank the author for writing this. She addresses such emotive topics in an incredibly empathetic way, without adding to the trauma. I also really appreciated her willingness to share her own childhood experiences, especially in the final chapters.


*Thank you to the Author, publishers and NetGalley for an ALC of this book - all views in this review are my own*

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Really interesting listen, and ticked a lot of boxes for me. I liked the calm good sense voice of the narrator. I feel recognising traits is helpful for healing.

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Other than some occasional repetitiveness, I found this book to be sympathetic, nuanced, evidence-based and useful. It is comprehensive and therefore could be useful for many audiences. Although the term 'narcissist' has become a bit of a buzzword, this book treats the term seriously.

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Thank you Net Galley, the author & publisher for this e-ARC copy of this audiobook ahead of its release date in exchange for an honest review ✨

Wow I can’t even explain how useful this book was as someone currently going through trauma counselling & about to start EMDR. Very eye opening, so insightful and well written. I also found the narrators voice so soothing and fitting for the topics discussed. Would highly recommend to anyone I know struggling with the same issues and will be getting my partner to listen to this audiobook also! Very impressed!

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If you have listened to this then you obviously have your own personal reasons for doing so.
This is a really helpful and insightful listen. I had my own reasons for wanting to listen to this audiobook. I found it helped me understand things and also realise a lot about me and my past.
A great book for those interested in this area.

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This book was such a great guide to narcissism and how to deal with narcissistic parents, so validating and comforting and helpful.

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Really useful and helpful book about how to deal with the effects of being raised by a narcissist!

It also shows how much being raised by a narcissist can affect you and how many ways you can be affected by this!

Would recommend the audiobook to anyone interested in learning about narcissism and it's affects!

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If you requested this audiobook, it’s probably for a reason. It’s very helpful and understanding what happened, why it’s not your fault, and how you can grow and change when that feels impossible I’ve read several books on this subject, but I think this one is especially concise, as well as compassionate, and useful I will recommend it to others.

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These types of books should be made mandatory reading. This is a great insight into narcissism and how it can impact upon different generations. The author is able to make the material accessible and supportive all in one. There is no lecturing or opinions shared, instead every chapter expands on the next to allow for the reader/lister to think for themselves. The author also shares personal examples, there is no oversharing, it’s very relevant to show others they are not alone and to apply the knowledge to real circumstances, which is so important. Even if you don’t have a parent that’s a narcissist I think having the awareness of others experiences would make for interesting and enlightening reading. Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for an ARC. This is a voluntary review of my own thoughts.

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For me this book was an emotional listen. I only wish that I had had this book several years ago. Two years ago. I escaped from a toxic and narcissistic relationship. I myself have had to go through a period of grief reevaluation and learning.

That made me then think about the effects that the relationship, had had upon my children. Sarah Davies has written this book as if she was explaining my life. It’s given me a greater understanding into what my children have experienced in their childhood.. I feel so emotional that I let my children go through this.

Having read this book, my children and I are now able to open up meaningful conversations as to what we went through how we felt and how we are going to move forward from this. Positive notice our relationships with each other have never been better but read this book. I realise there may be deeper issues we still haven’t touched up.

This is not a book to be sat in Read in one sitting. It is best reading a couple of chapters and digesting what it is that you have read and put into the content .

To the author, my grateful thanks for this book.

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I don’t read or listen to a lot of non fic so I’m really picky. I like psychology related reads hence choosing this audio. I thought it was an interesting listen and well worth it for anyone who has lived through a childhood where one or both parents fit this kind of description. Defo a self help vibe for readers or listeners who likely feel at times they have no one who understands fully how they feel. Have recommended to friends

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**Book Review: *Raised by Narcissists* by Dr. Sarah Davies**

*Raised by Narcissists* by Dr. Sarah Davies is a powerful exploration of the challenges faced by those who grew up with narcissistic parents. Drawing from her experience as a clinical psychologist, Dr. Davies provides a clear and compassionate overview of how narcissistic parenting impacts children emotionally and psychologically.

The book effectively explains complex psychological concepts in an accessible way, making it suitable for both professionals and general readers. Personal stories throughout the book add depth, illustrating the real-life impact of narcissistic parenting and reinforcing the message that readers are not alone in their experiences.

What makes *Raised by Narcissists* particularly valuable is its focus on recovery and empowerment. Dr. Davies offers practical advice and strategies for healing, encouraging readers to reclaim their narratives and build healthier relationships.

Overall, this book is an essential resource for anyone affected by narcissistic parenting, offering understanding, hope, and the tools needed for healing.

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