The description of what the book was about really interested me, not only as a woman but as someone who works with birthing women everyday. The story of coping with trauma and overcoming it in relation to future relationships and birth was really insightful. The book is well written and as you go along you discover more about the person and how little things that as a health care professional you may say or do can affect someone. Sometimes women don't feel comfortable disclosing information about any previous trauma and this story shows how they develop and grow.
There were parts of the book that I struggled with but overall it was really insightful and educational. As well as being a really powerful read.
Read on Kindle and some of the artwork and placement of text didn't look right. When reviewing on NetGalley app looked much better. Might need to look into this when released in print/ on kindle.

Proud Flesh is a gripping memoir that navigates the complex terrain of motherhood, trauma, and healing. Catherine Simone Gray masterfully intertwines her journey as a new mother with her past experiences of sexual violence and emotional abuse, posing crucial questions about the relationship between survivors and their maternal instincts. What happens when those who have endured trauma become mothers? What if we devoted as much energy to understanding our pleasure as we do to our pain?

When Gray was pregnant with her first child, she was determined to excel in the realms of parenting, armed with an array of baby books, parenting classes, and a supportive partner. However, the reality of motherhood proved to be far more challenging than she had anticipated. She found herself grappling not only with the struggles of birth and bonding but also with the resurfacing of deep-seated wounds from her past—ones that society and conventional narratives about motherhood fail to address. These are the wounds that demand recognition and healing on their terms.

Through her memoir, Gray chronicles how the experiences of birth and postpartum helped her confront and heal from her trauma, ultimately flourishing in her marriage and rediscovering the joy in her body. Told through two parallel narratives, she weaves together her postpartum healing journey with reflections on her young womanhood, detailing the trajectory of an abusive relationship and the healthy love that followed.

Proud Flesh is a powerful testament to the possibility of embracing pleasure alongside pain, rebuilding trust in relationships, and reclaiming one’s eroticism. Gray’s story serves as an inspiring reminder that motherhood can facilitate, rather than obstruct, the journey of transformation and self-discovery. This memoir is both a celebration of resilience and an exploration of the profound connections between trauma, love, and the pursuit of joy.

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Proud Flesh is a curious memoir. It holds so much power with its less frequently observed territories and brave themes.
Gray talks about her body, the human body and her experiences candidly and openly. I appreciated that.
This was overall a mixed bag for me, yet I have reflected on my reading experience and have made up my mind.
This was not a great read in my experience; I found the narrative structure uneven, but more importantly, the topics and themes were dealt with the way I expected them to be dealt with - the emphasis on what mattered felt imbalanced.
Despite the rawness and honesty, the writing style did not appeal to me at all.
I wish this book the best journey and the right audiences.
It was just not my cup of tea.