3.5 of 5 stars rounded to 4
https://lynns-books.com/2024/11/04/review-the-bog-wife-by-kay-chronister/
My Five Word TL:DR Review : Not Sure What I Expected

I enjoyed The Bog Wife, it’s intensely atmospheric, very much a story of characters rather than a hard focus on plot and it’s incredibly original.

This is the story of the Haddesley family who have lived on a bog for generations. The family tends to the bog and in return the bog provides a wife for the eldest son to continue their line. It’s a very unusual folklore tale that really hooked me. As the story begins we witness four of the children as they look after their father and the bog. It’s not a great life to be honest, they seem to live in terror of their father, who is plotting with his second son, the mansion is old and decaying and they have little money which they have to use wisely. It seems like the folklore surrounding the family and the pact they have with the bog has been fractured. When the father eventually passes (and I won’t give more away about that here) a new wife fails to appear. One of them begins to look a little more into the family’s history and it soon becomes apparent that everything is not quite as they’ve been led to believe.

I loved the setting and the eerie atmosphere. There’s this huge old mansion. Clearly, the family once had wealth and status (they in fact still have something of a reputation and people certainly avoid them) but now the place has fallen into disrepair. It comes across as one of the most unwelcoming places that you can imagine. Cold, drafty, unkempt and full of secrets and skeletons just waiting to make themselves known. If you love a gothic setting then this will undoubtedly satisfy your need, for me it called to mind We have Always Lived in the Castle but here there’s a wild, abandoned feel to the place on top of the strange dysfunctional family and the odd beliefs they hold.

I can’t say I was overly fond of any of the family – which is perhaps the author’s intent. The father is incredibly unpleasant and I wasn’t sorry when he passed. He kept the children (and I say children but these are all adults now), in a stilted half life. They were half starved, roaming around in old threadbare family castoffs and were often at each other’s throats (a kind of bickering hatred that the father seemed to foster in them). It has the feel of a cult and for a while there I was deluded into thinking this was more of a period story – but in actual fact this is a modern tale as we discover with the return to the fold of one of the siblings. It’s like all of them are completely uneducated and unknowledgeable about the ‘real’ world. They’re all completely mired in the family history and simply live for the bog.

Then, there’s the revelation – which I don’t want to spoil by giving too much away. I’m still pondering this, in one respect, I’d gone down a rabbit hole of my own making, I thought I understood what was going to happen but in fact I was only half on track, and to be honest, I’m still not entirely sure about the ending and the route the author took.

This is a very frustrating review to write because I’m trying to be oh so careful with what I say. I think it’s best to keep this short and sweet. What I can say without any doubts. This is well written, it’s totally intriguing and had me hooked, it’s unpleasant in parts and the characters are not the sort you want to really hug but in spite of that the story kept me reading into the wee hours. I had no trouble finishing this in an almost indecently quick snip. I wouldn’t say I loved it and I’m not sure it’s the style of book that you would say you loved. On the other hand I certainly didn’t dislike it, it’s compelling and keeps you guessing. I definitely want to read more by this author and I’m very curious to see what she comes up with next. Would I recommend this – yes, I would. The writing is evocative, the characters all stand out and I couldn’t put the book down.

I received a copy through Netgalley, courtesy of the publishers, for which my thanks. The above is my own opinion.

I really enjoyed this and sort of went into it not knowing what to expect. It was a slow burn but worth it for the atmosphere and sense of unease that was built. I don’t know what to think about the ending.

What a creepy, muggy, suffocating read, but only in a good way! I don't know how to describe it, but I suppose one could name it folkloric horror, given the depth of folklore in this book and how it sits at the heart of the story. There's also plenty to ground this book, especially in the ties between family and the trauma that works its way into tradition and expectation. It feels horrifying in a very personal way, which I think only makes it more compelling. If you're a fan of gothic horror or folk horror, this is absolutely the right book for you, especially during fall!

Kay Chronister's "The Bog Wife" is a really compelling Appallachian gothic read, steeped in folklore and with an intriguing cast. The Haddesly family have been caretakers of the titular bog for hundreds of years. They adhere by a covenant made with the bog, which includes them taking care of it while the bog provides the patriarch with a bog wife - a woman made of the bog itself that ensures future children and the survival of both family and bog. When the latest patriarch dies, it falls to his five children to uphold the covenant. Not all of them want to, though, and one of them has even already fled their insulated lifestyle to the city. It's a gothic tale but also very much so the tale of this broken family, five now adult children shaped by growing up in a lonely bog without contact to the world outside of it, always under the thumb of their strict father who might or might not have killed their mother, who might or might not have actually been a bog wife. There is doubt seeping in, reveals coming to light, loyalty and duty warring with hopes for freedom and a different life, and hanging over them the constant demands of the bog.
It's a well-written, evenly paced and not too long book perfect for the darker days of autumn. The vibes are great and I really enjoyed the ending. Perfect 4 star book all around.

"The bog was an endlessly needy creature, always in peril, vulnerable to trespassers, to changes in the weather, to its own need for a very particular balance of earth and water."

For centuries, the Haddesleys have been custodians of an Appalachian bog, sustaining themselves through ancient rituals passed down through generations. After a ritual goes tragically wrong, the siblings—Eda, Wenna, Charlie, Percy, and Nora—are left uncertain of how to maintain their bond with the bog and must face the unsettling truth that their family legacy may be built on a lie.

The Bog Wife is a dark, atmospheric, and haunting exploration of loneliness, isolation, and sacrifice. Told through the perspectives of the five Haddesley siblings, the story follows their lives after their father's death. Though the multiple POV's can feel overwhelming at times, the different perspectives allows you to emotionally connect with the characters and their individual struggles as they confront life without the structure they once relied on.

The novel shines in its portrayal of a gothic, ritualistic world, with the bog serving as a vivid, unnerving setting. The setting is so rich, you can almost smell and feel the grassy and damp bog - I love when books are able to transport you to the setting. This isn’t a typical spooky story; instead, it delves into the terror of losing something foundational to your existence and the horror of being left behind when society has moved forwards.

Though the ending isn’t traditionally happy or sad, it offers a fitting conclusion to the siblings’ journeys. Some choose to embrace change, while others cling to what is familiar, and the author skillfully captures the tension in these choices.

"There was no freedom in recognising the lie at the foundation of everything. There were only the same unmet and unmeetable demands as before."

I love folk and gothic horror and I have to say when I read the blurb for The Bog Wife I was sure I would love it. I have to say I was not disappointed. Despite being based in the UK the myths and folklore of the Appalachians. They seem to be the perfect setting for a folkloric horror and Chronister certainly uses this setting in the best possible way.

I won’t say the pace is overly slow but it fits with the genre and creeping dread we feel. I loved the dynamic of the family and the secrets they keep. In fact the characters are all fantastically fleshed out but for me what stood out is they way Chronister sets the atmosphere and scenes with their prose.

A definite must read if you love gothic and folk horror but even if you have never read these genres I would say give this one a try.

As always thank you to Titan Books and Netgalley for my copy. My review is always honest and truthful.

I read this weeks ago and it still festers, drawing my attention back. Atmosphere and landscape are everything in this novel and handled so well that even the gtim bits take on their own beauty. I loved the language, the interplay between the siblings - especially the insight and outsider's eye Wenna brings when she returns to her dysfunctional family. The power their upbringing, particularly their father's insistence on the rituals involving the bog, has over the siblings has shaped them into damaged people with little ability to function in the real world. I'll reread this as I think there's a lot to gain.

I absolutely love a gothic horror! This was beautifully written and so raw.
This story is so hurtful and you want to hug all these characters.
A family surviving in The Bog and the father starts declining slowly. They had some bizarre family traditions and I loved the siblings’ relationships.

If you love Gothic, Magical Realism, Folk Horror and weird families then this is your story!

Thank you to Netgalley and Titan books for my ARC.

Appalachian southern Gothic meets ecological folklore, The Bog Wife follows the five children of the Haddesleys, a family who have tended the cranberry bog their home sits upon for countless generations. They perform rituals and tasks to sustain the land, and in return the bog provides for them—including a wife for the new patriarch of the family when the previous one passes. When the Haddesley family father dies, the children perform the burial rites and await a woman's emergence from the bog for the eldest son to take as his wife. However, events don't unfold as they have for centuries, and the repercussions threaten to tear the family apart. As new truths and startling facts from their Haddesley history emerge, the children are faced with difficult decisions that will impact their future—and maybe that of the family line altogether.

While there are elements of folk horror here, this wasn't a book I found particularly scary. It feels more steeped in the gothic tradition; it's unnerving as a result of the alien and often inhospitable location, because of the tense and fractured family relationships. It isn't necessarily a book I'd recommend to those who want to be afraid to turn the light off at night, but when it comes to rich character development, and a story that gets it's hooks into you until you can't put it down, there are very few I've read this year that do it better. There's a huge amount of world-building and mythology that comes from this small homestead, and Chronister does an incredible job bringing it to life.

The story is told from the point of view of the 5 Haddesley children, with each chapter written from one of their perspectives. Whether Charlie, the insecure patriarch-in-waiting, the youngest daughter Nora and her connection to the natural world around her, or Wenna, the only child to have left and to return after living in the wider world, each of the characters feels fully fleshed-out. Each has development and arcs that are, at the very least, satisfying, and I found myself enjoying spending time inside each of their heads. 

A wonderfully written book full of vivid imagery and engrossing prose that more than sticks the landing and pays off the build, I was a little unsure of my feelings towards it in the early part—however it ended up growing into one of my favourite reads of 2024. Perhaps not for everyone, but I expect those that get it will really end up loving it.

I really enjoyed the gothic, deeply disconnected vibe this book had. The elements of the bog were also incredibly interesting, but I really wish there was more to this book. More character development and more plot movement, the entire thing felt like it just scrapped the surface of what it could have been. It was original and entertaining though, perfect for this time of year.

"The Bog Wife" by Kay Chronister is a gothic novel set in Appalachia about a set of siblings who must deal with the aftereffects of the rupture of their family’s supernatural bargain.

Generational trauma, dysfunctional sibling dynamics, and a deep sense of unease the bog wife's true nature are what initially grabbed my interest with this novel. The wetlands setting suits the gothic aesthetic of this novel perfectly.

Did I enjoy this book? Yes, even though it was not the book I thought it would be. It left me a great sense of discomfort as each of the five Haddesley siblings' individual stories and attempts to belong to their family was unravelled, and I so often longed for them to escape this hungry land which consumed it all. Land and family could be used interchangeably and it hit a deep cord in me how the idea of family created such lonely people, disconnected to such great lengths from each other and unable to express and understand their desires. It also triggered me a great deal as the story is about a retuning daughter as well.

Alongside the cool setting, the other great selling point of "The Bog Wife" is its strong character development, especially for Charlie. Each of the siblings are unique and follow their own individual paths, with distinct story resolutions. There was an intimate knowledge of each character throughout the year after their father's death, exploring their grief and evolving relationship with their familial identity, which each sibling understood as something different.

The most prevalent theme in the story is familial alienation, and I really enjoyed how the novel explored different facets of this issue. It was interesting to watch this play out in a family so consumed with the idea of its familyhood. Whether the sibling stayed or not, whether they took pride in their family history or not, all of them felt they had a debt to their family, which they resented and also were so closely linked to. The narrative that resonated the most with me is Charlie's, whose link with his family was fraught with tension and his ability to perform his part severed by his accident. It was no surprise that it was he, not Wenna, who found the truth about their ancestor and began moving his idea of family outside of the rules of the bog.

Finally, the bog! The unseen protagonist of the story. I am still not sure what I liked and what I didn't about it. It was the second parent of the siblings, equally cruel as their father, and focused on its own survival above all else. Yet it also offered more and created opportunities that offered new choices while the dead patriarch only aimed to create a copy of his life so there would be a never-ending cycle of abuse. This emotional abuse included himself, too, and I doubt he was aware of it. The most interesting part of the bog is that even though it was the only supernatural element of the book, it wasn't what haunted the siblings.

"The Bog Wife" is a gothic novel that dances between the urban fantasy, horror, and family saga genres. A deep and slow book filled with inner dialogue and past revelations but never changing its focus from the struggle of how the Haddesley siblings can move forward with the lives they were born into.

Wow, this is currently in my "Top 3 Books" of 2024!
The story about the Haddesley siblings and the struggle in keeping their lives together after the bog wife was denied in a first ceremony was truly captivating.
I tried explaining the story to a coworker and it just sounded weird but truly, letting yourself into this story, everything made sense and I was so invested in their lives and the secrets surrounding them. 336 pages weren't enough for me. I cannot pick a favourite from the siblings, I loved every insight from the changing POVs. A true creepy page turner. 100% my taste. Ordered Chronsiters other books right away. Thank you very much for approving me to this title.
On another note: I really dislike the current UK cover... compared to the US one it is not making the story justice and I fear many will glance over the title because of that cover. I am hoping for a cover exchange before the publication.

Oh no, I think I read a different book to everyone else...

I wouldn't necessarily say this 'wasn't for me' because I love weird, gothic, and atmospheric stories so much!!

But this did NOT feel like that at all.

I didn't pick up on a single thing other reviewers are saying that they enjoyed.

'Vivid setting' - where?
'Compelling' - Boring
'Great dialogue' - So choppy and un natural

I'll just leave this here because ultimately it did nothing wrong and I don't want to bash it for no reason, however, it really doesn't live up to the synopsis at all in my opinion, and the narrative felt so dysfunctional!

Thank you to NetGalley and Titan Books for the e-ARC in exchange for my opinion.

(Sorry!)

As with Desert Creatures, Chronister creates an unsettling atmosphere in a world almost recognisable as our own. This time in an Appalachian bog at the edge of town, this slow burn character-driven novel slowly layers a rotten damp suffocation upon the reader.

The prose can feel a bit sticky at times, the descriptions left me with the feeling of trudging home in a steady downpour after a gruelling days work.

Written from the POVs of the five Haddesley children- who act as such despite being adults, their sheltered isolation at the bog leaving all but Wenna blind to the realities of a normal life.

The Bog Wife plods along forcing you to care for the naive characters, sure that you need to see them rescued from their bizarre rituals and impoverished lives only to leave you wondering if perhaps, they were exactly where they needed to be.

I think this book calls to a specific kind of reader, I prefer more plot and it was a little bleak for me but still an enjoyable read.

Great writing, a dark and engrossing plot which was very atmospheric, characters which were well developed and plotting which was well paced. I thought this was really good and would love to read more from this author

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for this arc