This is a wonderfully written novel that offers a captivating journey through three decades of a family’s life across Ghana, Glasgow, and London. I really appreciated the author’s writing style and the depth given to each character. The use of multiple perspectives—through chapters focused on different family members—allowed for a deeper understanding of their choices and motivations. The story thoughtfully explores themes like family, migration, cultural identity, faith, and sexuality. It’s a deeply emotional read, and I found myself finishing it quickly.

Thanks to the publisher and Netgalley for my free digital ARC of Selali Fiamanya’s debut novel! I was really impressed by this debut, the differing POVs all kept my attention well, even if Elom does steal the show. It could have done with a bit more cohesion between the chosen time periods/perspectives, as some parts of the family’s lives felt more glossed over than others, but I appreciate that it’s a fairly wide ranging story which has successfully been contained into 350 pages. We know from the start that tragedy has struck the family, then we go all the way back to the parents, Kodzo and Abena’s, first meeting in Ghana. The pair move to Scotland where they face challenges of being one of the only Black families in their part of Glasgow. Over the years they build their family and careers, an interminable effort to carve out a life for themselves.

Of course I am a sucker for any story which deals with a character coming to terms with their sexuality. Some of Elom’s coming-of-age experiences were so bloody sad - who knew a booze-fuelled week in ‘Shagaluf’ could break my heart lol. Fiamanya did a great job of depicting all sorts of relationships in this book. He perfectly encapsulates the way some relationships in your 20s feel - like everyone else is forming more meaningful relationships and yours are all surface level.

Very moving, looking forward to see what this author comes out with next!

‘You can choose to mourn our son in the place where he died. I need to remember him in a place where I can live.’

Elom is a lost soul. He’s in the midst of trying to find himself, whilst trying to achieve this journey to his idea of self, he attempts to live his life authentically. But when you feel displaced & misunderstood by others, is it possible to gain a sense of identity? Set between Ghana & Glasgow, Before We Hit The Ground highlights the rawness of such a journey to ‘self’.

This was a gorgeously written novel. Despite the synopsis indicating that this story would solely be about Elom, I was pleasantly surprised to be presented with a multi-pov narrative. This included Elom's mother, father & sister. I personally could have done without the sisters pov, it felt limited, but, the parents povs - WHEW! Those pov's hit my readers spot.

Parenting was a key theme explored within this novel. As a parent myself, I thought that the depiction of Elom's parents was perfectly flawed. As a parent you will NEVER get it ALL right. It is a journey of constant ebbs & flows. It also showcased that sometimes you parent from a place of missed opportunities & lived experiences, that while they come from a place of love, this love can metamorphose into pain for the recipients, I.e. Elom.

I appreciated Elom’s story, but at times I struggled to understand exactly what the root cause of his issues were. His parents chapters stole the show for me, maybe because there was more clarity and definition of their issues.

I also liked the inclusion of sexuality in this story… However, I was left a bit concerned around the subject of consent. This is the 2nd book that i’ve read which features a gay relationship with grey areas in respect of consent.

Overall, I did really enjoy this book! It was raw, heartfelt + honest. I cant wait to read more from this author in the future.

⭐️⭐️⭐️.95

In this heart-rending and beautiful debut novel, we meet Ghanaian Abena and Kodzo, creating a new life in Glasgow and raising their two children, troubled, awkward Elom and good girl Djifa. While Elom I suppose becomes a disaster millennial, his friendship group and career starting to come loose, we see enough of the young people's teenage years to keep my interest. We hop between the four characters' experiences, the setbacks of the parents and Kodzo's rather secret religious issues and mental health problems, and see them fighting to be more understanding and flexible and less the traditional "African" parents, while their children still see them as such: to be honest, I'd have read a whole book just on them.

It's a musing on parenthood, family, friendship and home, with scenes back in Ghana interspersed as Abena has to then wishes to return home. We know near the beginning that someone has died and there is a rift as Abena packs her jewellery and recipes for the journey to Ghana; we spend the rest of the book working up to that point. Elom struggles with his sexuality and there's an interesting fault line between him and his white boyfriend about him coming out, even though there's no heaviness or drama involved in the end.

A really involving read where you're not sure what's going to happen right up to the end and are left with questions unanswered that go right back to the start.

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Before We Hit the Ground is a phenomenal, moving read and had me in an utter chokehold, I finished it in a few hours.
It starts at the end, which might make it seem as though the rest of the story may bring comfort and answers, but instead it is an emotional rollercoaster of a journey.
The story follows a family battling with their cultural and social identity, and brings you into the lives of each character as they grow both figuratively and literally. By the end I was a mess. I had fallen so deeply for these characters and their stories and I hoped so desperately for a different ending.
The writing is absolutely incredible and brings pause and feeling to the reader perfectly.
It’s been a while since I felt so connected to the characters in a novel, not because I can relate, but because their stories and emotions were told so vividly, you cannot help but became involved and even protective over them. I was particularly drawn to Elom, and ached so much for him.
I’ve done a lot of work with diasporic storytelling and truly, Fiamanya has captured this experience so perfectly. I cannot recommend this novel enough.

Thank you to HarperCollins, The Borough Press and Netgalley for this phenomenal ARC!

This book was such a moving read—it truly had me in a chokehold. The first few pages reveal the ending, which I initially thought would be comforting, yet the journey remained an emotional rollercoaster. By the time I reached the final page, I was overwhelmed with sadness. I had come to know and love these characters so deeply that I unrealistically hoped for a different ending. There were so many moments where I had to pause, reflect, and simply feel. I was at a loss for words because this family’s collective journey captured the diaspora experience so perfectly.

This is a beautiful book about a family wrestling with their identity both culturally and socially . I loved the journey I went on with the characters especially Elom. I felt very protective of him by the end. I feel this book will stay with me for a long time.

Thank you very much to NetGalley, HarperCollins UK and The Borough Press for this advance copy in exchange for a fair review! I went through so many emotions while reading this, and as a result the review had to wait until I'd recovered a little.

My short review - read this! It's a long time since I've read a story where I was so fully invested in all four main characters and where I highlighted so many passages. Its insights in what it means to love and to be loved, how we treat others and how we see ourselves through their eyes... so many times I had to put the book down, breathe and digest it all a little before moving on.

Before We Hit the Ground is the story of a Ghanaian/Scottish family. Abena and Kodzo are born in Ghana but leave for the cold and rain of Glasgow, bringing up their children there and making a life for them all. The story is told skilfully through chapters that are often separated somewhat in time, and told variously from the perspective of each of the four members of the family. There's some delightful contrasts between the expectations of family and life in Ghana and how the characters are experiencing Glasgow - including a wonderfully told trip back to Ghana for Abena for her mother's funeral and everything that brings.

Ultimately though, the heart of the story is Elom, the family's son and younger child, and his search for belonging and understanding how to love and be loved in return. Elom has my heart, and my only real criticism of this book was that I was so invested in Elom in the last third that every time a chapter narrative switched to his sister Djifa's story or to one of his parents, I was impatient and just wanted to get back to Elom.

A beautiful novel that works on several levels - it's a family saga, an immigrant's story and exploration of queer love and belonging. Highly recommended.

Many thanks to the author, Selali Fiamanya, @netgalley, and the publisher, Harper Collins UK, for an ARC of this book, which will be published on 27 February. It's the story of a British Ghanaian family, focusing in particular on the eldest son, Elom. We follow the family over 30 years, from Abena and Kodzo's first meeting in Ghana through to the aftermath of Elom's unexpected death.

I really wanted to love this novel, and it contained a lot of elements that appealed to me. The exploration of moving to a different culture and what it means to belong to your new land as well as your original home is well explored and Elom’s struggles with others are carefully described. However, it's relatively short for a family saga, especially for one that's told from four different perspectives. The chapters are also short, and the narrative often jumps forward a few years with each change of chapter. Taken altogether, it felt a bit disjointed to me, and I felt that I wanted each character to be given more space to tell their story.

There's also a mystery at the heart of the narrative. While the other characters are clearly sketched and their motivations easy to understand, Elom felt unknowable to me: even at the end of the novel, I wasn't sure why he found it difficult to relate to people in different areas of his life. I suppose that's true to life - the reasons for people's behaviour can rarely be encapsulated by a simple definition- and it kept me thinking, but it also felt unsatisfying.

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I think this novel is still worth reading, but it could have been even better.

Thank you to netgalley and HarperCollins UK, HarperFiction for gifting me copy of this book in an exchange for a review.

“They had shown him that love was a tightrope between freedom and control. He didn’t know how others seemed to walk it with ease”

"Before We Hit The Ground" totally floored me! Selali Fiamanya's debut novel is a stunning exploration of family, identity, and acceptance that had me hooked from start to finish. In this powerful and poignant story, Abena and Kodzo, Ghanaian parents living in Glasgow, navigate the complexities of cultural heritage, family dynamics, and personal identity alongside their children, Elom and Djifa.

I loved how the story wove together the lives of this family, each character's voice and perspective adding a rich layer of depth to the narrative. What really resonated with me, though, was Elom's journey towards self-acceptance. It's this beautifully poignant portrayal of the struggles and fears that come with finding your true self - and it's something that I think we can all relate to on some level.

“But slowly, he began to admit to his own desires in the daylight: he didn't have a name for what he was, but he knew what he wanted. The white-hot release of sex gained more colour: he had good sex, bad sex, intimate and wild sex. Eventually he brought men back to his, scooting them past his housemates, then later walking downstairs with a bashful pride. Now when he went out and saw other boys, he was more concerned with communicating his interest than with hiding it. He stressed out about uni, and money, and getting enough sleep, and sex: normal things” - this passage marks a turning point in Elom's journey, as he begins to embrace his desires and identity. The way Fiamanya writes about Elom's experiences with sex is both frank and tender, capturing the complexities of intimacy and vulnerability.

Furthermore, the following passages highlight the complexities of Elom's relationships with his family. The first quote, 'There was something they never understood about him, and things he was never able to tell them...', perfectly captures the essence of Elom's struggles with his family. It's a powerful reminder that love can be present even when understanding is lacking. Meanwhile, the second quote takes this theme further, as Elom observes that his family reacts to discussions of mental health with the same 'compassionate avoidance' they exhibit towards his sexuality. This insightful passage underscores the tension between empathy and avoidance, and highlights the ways we often struggle to confront difficult topics. Fiamanya's portrayal of Elom's struggles is both deeply personal and universally relatable.

Although Elom is undoubtedly the heart of this story, I found myself wanting to delve deeper into the lives of the other characters, particularly Kodzo. His struggles with faith and the tensions at home are expertly woven throughout the narrative, but I couldn't help feeling that there was more to explore.

Fiamanya's writing is just gorgeous - it's tender, it's unflinching, and it's totally immersive. Her storytelling has the power to make you feel seen, heard, and understood. If you're looking for a novel that'll make you feel all the feels, this book is an absolute must-read for 2025!

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4.5 Stars

Before We Hit the Ground is Selali Fiamanya’s debut novel, and I absolutely loved it. The story follows a Ghanaian family over the course of 30+ years, beginning with the parents, Abena and Kodzo, as they navigate their move from Ghana to Scotland. Later, we are introduced to their two children, Elom and Djifa.

Each of the four main characters has a distinct and compelling voice, making their perspectives a joy to read. The second half of the book centers more on Elom as he grapples with his sexuality and journey into adulthood. Despite being a debut novel, the writing is impeccable. From the very first page to the last, I was fully invested in the story. The themes the author explores are thought-provoking and add depth to an already engaging narrative.

This is one of the best books I’ve read this year, and I truly hope more people discover it. It deserves to be a bestseller.

For the first 50% of this I was hooked and on board. I was interested in seeing how the story of Abena's acclimatization to Scottish life would unfold, I wanted to see her navigate through life and succeed and stumble along the way. That's what kept me turning the pages. As soon as the story switched from being about the parents and focused on the kids and their struggles, I lost interest.

I found both kids to be incredibly boring with the son being mildly better. I found the daughter's POV to be a snooze fest and kept asking myself why it was needed to begin with. It added nothing to the story besides a higher page count. If it was completely cut out we would still have the same story. The girl has no personality beyond being the poster child for perfect kids. What was her purpose in this book?

I don't understand what we were trying to do in the latter half, it felt directionless and pointless. In a sea of books about the immigrant experience and coming of age this really adds nothing to that conversation. I'm confused as to what message we are supposed to draw from this. What was the point of this whole narrative? What are the takeaways? What is the point? If someone gets it I'd love it explained to me because I simply don't get it.

The writing was decent otherwise the rating would be much lower. The two halves of this book just didn't come together in a way that made this one complete story. We should have just stuck to the parents' POVs there was a lot more to explore there that was just hinted at especially in the dad's arc

Thank you to NetGalley and The Borough Press for this ARC!

Before We Hit the Ground tells us the story of a Ghanian family living in the UK, and we follow them from the parents' meeting in Ghana when they are young adults, through their lives in Glasgow, to the lives their children lead as they grow up.

This book was a fantastic, multi-faceted read, one which I truly don't think any summary will do justice. On the surface it's simply the story of a family over the course of about three decades, but it discusses many heavy and important themes with compassion and grace in a way which I feel will bring them closer to any reader, even those who have led completely different lives.

This book discusses topics such as blackness in Scotland but also just in white-dominated society. The roles women are forced into, with a focus on the expectations placed on Ghanian women, though in a way I feel many people who have emigrated from countries ravaged by centuries of colonialism will relate to, as well as their children. As someone who is Catholic, but deviates in the way he practices from what is considered the standard, I found Kodzo's spiritual journey especially interesting.

But I must not neglect talking about Elom, who I feel in a way is at the very heart of the story. We are told at the start of the book that Elon has died, so for the rest of the book you feel as if you are putting together a puzzle, figuring out the events that have led to this. Elom's sexuality is part of that puzzle, but not the one I found most intriguing. Instead, his issues with feeling and understanding himself and his emotions was what made me love his character as much as I did; as someone who is autistic I constantly saw myself in the ways he struggled to connect with and stay connected to people and hold onto friendships and relationships alike.

In general the characters in this were utterly fantastic, both those whose POVs we get to see and those who are just a part of their individual stories. Every single character felt rich and unique, and just plain human. We were never just shown any character's faults or only their good sides, but instead they were shown as a real human being is: with equal measures of both of them.

All in all this was an absolutely stunning debut novel, I cannot wait to read more of Fiamanya's work in the future. I highly recommend reading this if you love character-focused fiction, if you want to see the world from a perspective that differs from yours, or if you just want to see your experiences masterfully reflected in novel-form.

I don't think I could ever even begin to write a review for this book that reflects all the layers of this story - everyone please read this so I have more people I can fawn over this with.

Hauntingly beautiful and heartbreaking, this took my breath away. Wow, what a gorgeous novel. I can't recommend this enough. Thank you to the publishers and to NetGalley for my ARC.

Before We Hit the Ground is a breathtaking exploration of love, grief, and resilience that left me utterly captivated. From the very first page, the prose is stunningly lyrical, balancing raw emotion with delicate beauty. Every sentence feels purposeful, pulling you deeper into a story that is both heart-wrenching and hopeful.

The characters are written with such depth and authenticity that their struggles and triumphs feel intensely real. Fiamanya captures the complexity of human relationships with incredible nuance, weaving themes of identity, belonging, and healing seamlessly into the narrative.

What truly sets this book apart is its emotional impact. It is one of those rare stories that lingers with you, making you think deeply about life and connection long after the final page. Fiamanya’s talent for storytelling is remarkable, and the pacing, structure, and resolution are all handled masterfully.

Before We Hit the Ground is a profoundly moving and unforgettable read. I cannot recommend it highly enough. A perfect 5/5!

Before We Hit the Ground by Selali Fiamanya is a poignant and multifaceted exploration of family, identity, and belonging. Spanning three decades and set against the vibrant backdrops of Ghana, Glasgow, and London, the novel delves into the lives of each family member, offering nuanced insights into their choices and struggles. Through themes of migration, faith, sexuality, and cultural adaptation, Fiamanya crafts a rich tapestry of what it means to move between worlds. At its heart, the story is a moving meditation on love—its complexities, its challenges, and the longing to be understood and cherished. This is a beautifully written, deeply resonant novel that navigates the intersections of identity and the universal human desire for connection.

Before We Hit the Ground by Selali Fiamanya is a powerful and introspective debut that navigates the complexities of identity, love, and belonging. At the heart of the story is Elom, a young man caught between the expectations of his well-meaning family, his boisterous friends, and his self-assured partner, Ben. Elom's desire to feel understood is palpable as he grapples with the evolving world around him and the even faster-changing world within. The book explores his search for authenticity in a world that seems to demand constant adaptation.

Set across Accra, Glasgow, and London, Fiamanya crafts an intimate portrait of Elom’s family, revealing the intricate dynamics between a young family of four with Ghanaian heritage. The story alternates between the perspectives of each family member, providing insight into their struggles with work, relationships, societal expectations, and faith. Through these shifting viewpoints, the book delves into the tension between personal desires and familial duties, all while navigating the complexities of cultural identity.

From the outset, readers are aware that a tragic event will eventually occur, but the suspense surrounding the when, how, and most crucially, the why, keeps the narrative gripping. Fiamanya masterfully builds this tension with a blend of bold, economical prose and occasionally lyrical passages that heighten the emotional resonance of the story. Particularly compelling is Elom’s perspective as a young Scot with Ghanaian parents, coming of age in the early 21st century. His internal struggle with identity, sexuality, and belonging forms the emotional core of the book, making it a deeply relatable and poignant read.

Before We Hit the Ground is an extraordinary book that reflects the intricate complexities of family life and the personal battles we face when trying to carve out our place in the world. Fiamanya’s debut is a beautifully crafted, thought-provoking exploration of what it means to love, be loved, and ultimately, to understand oneself.

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Wow. I didn't expect to love this quite so much.

With Before We Hit the Ground, Selali Fiamanya has crafted a dense, fantastic debut novel, spanning three decades across Accra, Glasgow, and London in the late 20th and early 21st centuries.

This family saga follows a young family of four with Ghanaian heritage, with chapters alternating between their respective perspectives, revealing their struggles with family life, work, societal expectations, relationships, and faith. The novel’s structure is quite neat and chronological, with only occasional time leaps – and one significant exception:

From page one or two, we know that a tragic event is bound to occur at some point in the story, but this doesn't take away the suspense of knowing when, how, and, first and foremost, why it is going to happen. This "why" is the crux of the story. Fiamanya masterfully builds the tension using bold, economical, straightforward prose interspersed with downright poetic passages. Not surprisingly, I particularly loved the perspective of Elom, a young Scot with Ghanaian parents, coming of age in the early 21st century, and his struggles with identity, sexuality, and belonging.

With the story so masterfully written, I couldn’t help but read the entire novel in one sitting – one frantic afternoon after the Christmas holidays, long past my bedtime. A novel that has gone straight to my favourites – I’ll definitely revisit it in the future.

4.5 stars.

Thank you HarperCollins UK, HarperFiction | The Borough Press for providing this book for review consideration via NetGalley. All opinions are my own.

Before We Hit the Ground is a beautiful, heart-breaking book that left me stunned. Fiamanya captures the introspective minutiae of normal people so effectively and poignantly, it is a joy to read.

The themes of belonging and home were the most impactful to me. A mother and father leave their home country of Ghana to settle in Scotland, a son goes on a journey to find himself, and more importantly, accept himself. No one quite feels like they fit in, yet they have friends and family that love them.

By switching perspectives with each chapter, you really get to know each character, their motivations and shortcomings, and you fall in love with them even deeper. However, in the opening pages, we learn that a main character has died. I found this a jarring choice - waiting for the inevitable moment to arrive, and having the death haunt over the beauty of the book was almost painful.

"They had shown him that love was a tightrope between freedom and control. He didn't know how others seemed to walk it with ease.

Before We Hit The Ground is a beautiful, sensitive and heartbreaking novel.

This is the story of a family - a family ; Abena and Kodzo born in Ghana and living in Glasgow; Elon their son ; Djifa their daughter. This is the story of family connections, trying to navigate the relationships within and how we breathe as we get older - finding our true selves and trying to remain true to who we are.

The first part of the book focuses on the early relationship and married life of Abena and Kodzu - the desires to succeed in life and life in Glasgow contrasted with the cultural differences to life for their families in Ghana- in particular Abena who grew up supporting her mother and helping to raise the children. The birth of their own children Elon and Djifa brings new challenges - chapters are told through the voice and perspective of each of the family as the years proceed.

Kodzo struggles with his faith ; Abena is torn between her life in Scotland and family in Ghana; Djifa focuses upon her studies and desire to be a doctor ; but it is Elom's story that is the heart of the book.

Elom is gay and struggles to fully accept his sexuality in relationship to family and relationships. His family do not speak of his sexuality and in romance, he finds it difficult to make deeper connections- fear and confusion.The heartache and struggle for Elom is palpable and very moving

"He never understood the rules of social games. Relationships weren't like they were in films and smarter people knew which promises were real and which were romantic aspirations.Perhaps he'd taken things too literally in his eagerness to connect."

Selali Fiamanya has written a wonderful novel- the love within the family is beautiful as they all navigate life and what acceptance means.

This is a superb debut and deserves all accolades it should receive. A 2025 must- read