I won't go into details about this one, because it feels unfair to bring down an arc.
I'd say it's partially just not my type of book. If you like lighthearted family stories this might be for you though. However, don't expect to much about adoption, I found the synopsis deceptive on that one.

1,5/5

This to me was truly a story of finding yourself through heartbreak. It presents a person trying to find herself and her role in life, love, and friendships, without taking into consideration what she wants, but rather what she expects others want. The book made me recognise that setting boundaries is important, but finding yourself is even more important, and you should not feel ashamed of being your true self. I really want others to read this and experience a sad, but honest look in the life of a woman absolutely going through it all. Thank you for this story.

I so appreciated reading this book! This is the story of Grace, a 39 year old mom who was adopted from South Korea as a baby. There is so much going on in the book, from her memories growing up in a white family in Iowa, to raising her daughters as a newly single mom after her husband leaves her for another woman. She also has a big family with big personalities, some interesting clients and friends, and a therapist who provides a space for her to process what’s happening in her life. There is a strong focus on Iowa- with real places noted, which was fun! I wish that some of the topics could have had more depth, but overall a funny, emotional, and meaningful look at one woman’s life!

I absolutely loved Grace - the main character. Completely in awe of her self awareness (for the most part), her work, her parenting. Her whole family: such great characters, flaws and all.
Her husband though... just wanted to smack him.
The storyline was interesting to read along, keep you hooked, with flashbacks allowing you to get more context. Grace's character development was also satisfactory.
Regarding adoption: some great gems, conversations about chosen family, different perspectives from adoptive parents. However, it wasn't enough for me. I wish the topic, and Grace's post-adoption journey had been explored in more detail. The problem here perhaps had been my mismanaged expectations from the book blurb - had I gone in blind I would have enjoyed it a lot more!

I got my ARC copy (first one!!) from NetGalley for which I am very grateful.

So many layers. Fun and meaningful.
Thanks to author, publisher and Netgalley for the chance to read this book. While I got the book for free it had no bearing on the rating I gave it.

I gravitate towards books about adoption. I've even written about the subject. This was a remarkable story and told in such a way that I became invested and pulled into it from the first few pages. I enjoyed Jinja's writing style. I applaud her bravery and authentic storytelling. Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC.