Unfriended

God made us for community, we are wired to connect with people. It is sad that people spend so much time connecting online and forget to connect with the creator. Unfriended is a great book to read. Thank you Netgalley.

What a wonderful resource. There is so much wisdom and information packed in these twenty five chapters. From the dangers of isolation brought on by the social media revolution, to the benefits of real community, the joy of experiencing the grandeur of nature to the simple wagging tail of a dog.

At every turn of the page Battaglia offered a new insight, another challenge and the benefits for being willing to implement the suggestions that he puts forward. I believe that this should be a recommend reading for anyone who has children they can influence, and for young adults who are getting ready to transition from life stage to another. Battaglia's wisdom can offer help in navigating the difficult relational challenges that stand before any of us, especially those who are preparing for major changes in life.

Well Done!

While I couldn't relate to every idea he shared, Battaglia's concerns about modern communities and the way we live are more than understandable. He raises important questions and although the answers he gives will not always satisfy every reader, I think he has made a good point: we should live a real life and have real relationships instead of getting lost in the dark pits of virtual reality.

This is a great book showing how social media and the digital world has taken over our lives. It shows many great examples in each chapter. Everyone should read this book. It may open your eyes to what we’ve done to ourselves. Quote from the book “Unfriend digital degradation and perversion in favor of a culture of human dignity and respect. Let’s begin to  build a community that represents a Godly culture of love.” unfriend the digital world at least a couple hours a day and we may see the difference. Thank you to #NetGalley and the publishers for the opportunity to read #Unfriended for my honest review.

Unfriended is a journey into our habits on social media, the definition of true community, and seeking ways to do both better. Joe raises some real questions that matter: Are we really in community while online? Or is it a vacuum of shared ideas? Bullying? Distasteful behaviors?

Throughout the book, Joe brings Biblical illustrations of what true community is, through stories of the Good Samaritan, the woman at the well, the woman accused of adultery, and pivotal messages from Jesus--The Sermon on the Mount, The Beatitudes and many other parables Christ shared with his people.

The thought that social media is a 'community' is a curious one, as Joe expands on. While we think we 'know' those we are virtual friends with, the truth is, it is not person to person, face to face. That's where the issues begin, When the person behind the computer becomes only a photo on the screen, it's much easier to say things one might not say face to face. Easier to make friends, but not friends who see the non airbrushed part of who we are. Then there are the issues of political arguments, discussions that get out of hand and active cyberbullying, to name only a few.

It is a quick read, but could be broken up into group study or used for a devotional, as, each chapter has a prayer at its conclusion. This was a well written, interesting book with lots of subject for discussion. I appreciate the advanced reader PDF from #NetGalley and Broadstreet Publishing!

Unfortunately not my kind of book at all. Sadly did not finish it.
Thank you to both NetGalley and Broadstreet Publishing Group for giving me the opportunity to read this in exchange for an unbiased review

I can’t imagine anyone under the age of 70 that isn’t aware of the changes brought about by social media and its meteoric rise within our culture. My apologies to anyone over 70 and I know there are many who are tech savvy. The society in which we live and move and have our being has changed since the advent of Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and even going all the way back to MySpace!
Joe Battaglia addresses the negative influences of social media over use in his new release, Unfriended. The book is set to be released next week. I would highly recommend anyone working with a segment of the population under 40 years of age get a copy. In the book he addresses many ways that the promised community online fails to live up the real version of community that helps create a functioning society.
He does this by pointing to the promises of the online version and pointing out the flaws of the delivery system associated with virtual community. Battaglia presents the longings of humanity that are common to all that people hope will be met via the online community via the various social media sites. It’s not a bashing of the either. It is simply an honest examination to see if they are holding up under the promised outcomes.
Each chapter is short enough to really hold your attention. Even for those of us conditioned by our media choices to move quickly from one blurb to the next. The readers will find ourselves at some point among those searching for community in our online avatars and will no doubt see our own desires pointed out in more than one of the chapters in the book.
The book seems to mirror something happening in real life in many places. Scholars and regular joes and janes are discovering that the benefits of being connected virtually all across the world are having some unintended consequences in real life. As Sherry Turkle’s book title points out, we are indeed finding ourselves increasing Alone Together.
I wish that Battaglia had included the positive contributions made from the rise of social media in a little more detail. But that wasn’t the nature of the work, so I understand why it wasn’t included. Even with that being said, I think the work is a need-to-read book for anyone who wants to understand the culture today. I highly recommend Unfriended.

I received a free copy of the book from the publisher in exchange for my honest review of the work.

3 stars

“We live in a hyperconnected world, and yet we’re more disconnected than ever. We spend more time scrolling through Instagram than we do talking with our families. We’ve never had more “friends,” but we have no one to meet for coffee”.

Good concept, interesting stories but the book just reads slightly patronizing. The idea behind the book is sound but implementation is unrealistic in many ways. Simply put, the idea of going out a finding true Christian friends is a lot more difficult than merely getting off of your phone or computer.

A number of various authors write on what faith, family and community means to them. The authors share differing views on what being plugged in does to family and community; for instance, the lack of sharing bedrooms, using phones at the dinner table and more.

Each chapter is an essay which has a verse followed by the authors view on how society is no longer “close” and how everyone needs to unplug in various different ways. Maybe I missed the point of the book but the theology seemed a little squishy and the book was just a tad patronizing. I love a good Christian book, but I am ambivalent about this one at best.


I received a complimentary copy of this book from NetGalley and Broadstreet Publishing Group LLC. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own. #Unfriended #NetGalley