Communicating with Grace and Virtue
Learning to Listen, Speak, Text, and Interact as a Christian
by Quentin J. Schultze
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Pub Date 1 Sep 2020 | Archive Date 9 Oct 2020
Baker Academic & Brazos Press | Baker Academic
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Advance Praise
“Schultze reveals the basics of truly good communication practices, making them accessible and showing why understanding communication is vitally important for the Christian life. He digs into his years of experience as a professional communicator, Christian leader, and as a human who has had to struggle with his own weaknesses, to reveal deep insights into how communication skills are an important aspect of serving God.”—Steve Perry, communication professor, Regent University
“Schultze’s remarkable ability to help others form, nurture, and repair relationships takes center stage in this splendid book. He emphasizes our need for gratitude since our communication is a gift from God. Such gratefulness informs our attitudes toward others and leads us to flourish relationally with virtue, grace, and beauty. I thank him for such a heart-forming book for all of us who teach, mentor, and serve others.”—Stephanie Bennett, communication professor, Palm Beach Atlantic University
“A truly unique work that marries academic principles with practical applications for spiritual formation. This book will be right at home in a Bible study, freshman orientation, or a university course.”—Tom Carmody, communication professor, Vanguard University
“A rare book—a wealth of practical, biblical truths for communicating faithfully as we accept and embrace our own fragile and broken selves. Schultze’s heart-rending and heart-warming stories demonstrate how brokenness is an integral part of communicating with grace and virtue.”—Diane M. Badzinski, chair and professor of communication, Colorado Christian University
“I can envision this book helping me to connect with my students and helping my students to connect with God and themselves so they can be wise and faithful servant communicators. I love it.”—Bob Gustafson, professor of communication, Moody Bible Institute
“Over the years, I have been inspired personally and professionally as I interacted with Quentin Schultze on various projects. Like few others, he has a unique ability to combine insights from the content of his field (communication) with treasures from the storehouse of his deep Christian faith commitment. While much has been written about how to be an effective public speaker or an engaged listener, this book reminds us of the profound need to communicate in transparent and life-giving ways—particularly in a world that seems to be increasingly divided and often despairing.”—Karen A. Longman, PhD program director and professor, Department of Higher Education, Azusa Pacific University
“Quentin Schultze has done it again! This wonderful new book will help you rediscover the joy of communicating, even in situations of brokenness and despair. Relationships are so important in our lives, yet they can so easily become hurtful. I want to reread this book until the advice seeps into my soul and guides my interactions as a servant communicator. Schultze gives brilliant and all-encompassing advice, not just surface information that we already know. I believe that this special book will lead all who read it to treasure and use well this gift of communication that God has given us. We will all be better and godlier people for heeding his wise words.”—Kathleen Sindorf, communication professor, workshop leader, and video producer, Cornerstone University
“All of us need this book, but particularly young readers experiencing fear, anxiety, and depression in a society where people increasing ‘shoot’ (with words and other things) before thinking. Schultze calls us to communicate from our brokenness, our deepest souls. It’s the kind of communication for which God made us—and which we crave.”—Michael Longinow, professor of journalism and integrated media, Biola University
“Schultze boldly ventures into our era of vice and viciousness with a call to communicate our stories in ways that engage, encourage, and enchant others. This wonderful book draws from our Christian tradition of both listening and expressing ourselves, giving it current application through various means—from silence to smartphones. It makes us better communicators and even guides us to become better people.”—Terry Lindvall, C. S. Lewis Chair of Communication and Christian Thought, Virginia Wesleyan College
“Drawing from a lifetime of teaching and scholarship, Schultze models the intelligence, wisdom, and Christlike vulnerability that we need today more than ever. I wish more Christians were so brave.”—Naaman Wood, professor of media and communication, Redeemer University, Ontario
“In a time of rage and rancor, Schultze shows how we can communicate in ways that honor God and neighbor. The book is perfect for college students, church leaders, and practitioners seeking a theologically sound approach to improving communication through a growing heart and focused practice. This book weaves the inner attitudes Christians need—gratitude, discretion, listening, and humility—with practical application in community, storytelling, and media use.”—Elizabeth McLaughlin, communication professor, Bethel University
“Over the last three decades university students have rushed to communications studies, a discipline with obvious public application. The works of Quentin Schultze are no small reason for this surge. He writes with a practitioner’s experience and a researcher’s insight. Students have grown confident and mindful under his guidance—more prone to embrace virtue and less to admire just technique. This book is a fresh look at the human condition through the eyes of a soulful scholar who writes well for all audiences.”—Mark Fackler, communication professor emeritus, Calvin University
“Weaving together poignant personal stories and a careful reading of Scripture, Schultze offers a rich tapestry of insights that invite us all to communicate with grace and virtue.”—David Balzer, professor of communications and media, Canadian Mennonite University
“This is a comprehensive, compelling introduction to the gift, ministry, and joys of communication. It is a veritable treasure chest of definitions worth remembering, stories worth retelling, and challenges worth pondering.”—Paul Patton, professor of communication, Spring Arbor University
“What a gracious call to consider the God-given roots of communication and our ongoing responsibility to measure our rhetoric. Highly recommended.”—Craig Detweiler, author of iGods: How Technology Shapes Our Spiritual and Social Lives
“Quentin Schultze has influenced my understanding of communication and of teaching more than anyone. If I had only one communication text to teach any class in the discipline, this would be my choice.”—Dan Fultz, professor of communication, Cedarville University
“This book is immensely helpful and illuminating to anyone aspiring to be an effective communicator. Through his own authenticity and vulnerability, Schultze models an approach to communication that is both effective and disarming. Schultze’s skills as a scholar and as a professional communicator shine on every page.”—Benson Fraser, Westminster Canterbury Fellow for Religious Studies and Lifelong Learning, Virginia Wesleyan University
“Our culture uses words to divide and conquer. We prize rhetoric that is accented with sarcasm and loaded with cynicism. It happens in our families, our jobs, our politics, and our churches. In his latest book, Schultze makes a compelling case for another way: servant communication. This is communication that requires a genuine empathy for the other. Brilliant in its simplicity, Schultze’s book is utterly transformational.”—David McFadzean, writer and film and TV producer (Home Improvement)
“Schultze paints a winsome picture for communication firmly grounded in biblical principles. This book is a thought-provoking reflection on how Christ-centered convictions can season all of our interactions. It is for everyone wondering what it looks and sounds like to communicate in a way that conveys the wisdom and joy of the Lord.”—Josh Danaher, professor and chair of communication, Grand Canyon University
“Schultze teaches us how to live as servant communicators. He braids together relatable personal and contemporary examples, ancient biblical and theological wisdom, and relevant communication scholarship and theory. This three-strand cord makes this text a must-read for Christians vested in the practice and study of good communication.”—Jonathan Pettigrew, professor of communication, Arizona State University
Available Editions
EDITION | Other Format |
ISBN | 9781540961273 |
PRICE | US$20.00 (USD) |
PAGES | 160 |
Featured Reviews
This is a decent basic overview of communication. I appreciate that the author has read some of the older Church Fathers, and There is something to learn and meditate more on in every chapter. Im just not sure that this is a necessary book, as there seem to be more comprehensive books on the subject already.
This is a simple, short, straightforward meditation on the art of communication. It is all too easy to spew words out of my mouth or through my thumbs onto a screen without reflecting upon what I am saying, how I am saying it, or whether it even needs to be said in the first place.
Through eight brief chapters, Quentin Schultze helps to frame communication as something that holds great possibility and yet as something that requires greater virtue and attention than we often give it. On the way he explores other aspects of communication such as the communal nature of communication, the power of story, and the pros and cons of communication technologies.
My one real quibble with the book lies in his chapter about story as an engaging way to communicate. While he is undoubtedly right that listeners tend to be able to be enraptured by story, he makes this problematic statement:
The Gospels engage partly because they are narratives. The book of Leviticus, filled with laws and commandments, is not equally engaging; much of its meaning comes from where it is located in the greater biblical story of God’s people, who needed specifics about how to live faithfully under God’s law.
Again, on the surface, this is undoubtedly correct from a merely descriptive vantage point (the old trope about how boring Leviticus is), but it strikes me as a fairly sloppy thing to say. Leviticus speaks to gender and sexuality, oppression and power, justice and righteousness, and even what to do with viral outbreaks in a community. In short, the book is talking about nearly every single hot topic in our culture today! Stating that its significance is mostly as an historical artifact of a bygone people meeting a need that is no longer needful is to misunderstand the book, how to read it, and what role it plays in the life of the Christian today.
Lest I sound like a pedant here, let me explain why this is a red flag. "Using story in communication" is a noncontroversial, popular thing to do these days. We no longer frame civic conversation in terms of right and wrong or values or even truth. We talk about "narratives." Why? Because it’s engaging to do so, just like Schultze describes. Yet to use the power of story to communicate simply because it is "effective" is to fail to catechize one another in other non-narrative forms of communication. Communicating propositions about the world as it is invites us out of our subjective stories into the much less comfortable territory of axiomatic and even dogmatic reasoning. Yes, it’s important to touch hearts and "create audience empathy and sympathy," as Schultze argues a little later. But employing pathos without logos or ethos falls far short of the art of rhetoric.
This concern aside, this book is nevertheless a decent examination of our words and how to use them well.
DISCLAIMER: I received a copy of this book from the publisher for the purpose of a fair, unbiased review.
Quentin has a way with discussing servant communication which makes one want to read his works more than once.
Communications seem to be an evergreen topic for discussion. Many schools and universities continue to offer courses that specialize in both the art and science of communications. Books continue to be written about the ways and means to communicate even as we deal with cultural and technological changes. Yet, one thing is to be expected. It is only a matter of time before we encounter difficulties in communications. In other words, there is no way we can separate life from conflicts. Being people from different backgrounds essentially mean that we have to deal with differences sooner or later. Even the best types of relationships require a fair bit of knowledge about conflict management. These include marriages, relationships with office colleagues, social circles, Church communities, online correspondences, and increasingly on social media. Enters the call toward "servant communication" which author and professor Quentin Schultze defines as "a way of using God’s gift of communication to love God and our neighbors as ourselves (Mark 12:30–31)." It begins with a willingness to accept the challenge to practice such communications as a way to witness grace and love. At the heart of this virtue is the practice of gratitude. The more grateful we are, the more able we are to practice graciousness in our communications. Christians are called to honour God in all that they do. Schultze knows the challenges of doing that. Thus, he guides us through some barriers, to point out how sin has made us broken, which not only affects us, but also the way we communicate. Here, the author lays out bare his past brokenness to demonstrate that he knows personally what it means to be part of a broken relationship.
The author goes on to describe other areas of communications. With regard to community, we are reminded to embrace rather than avoid community. It is a terrible thing to be lonely and one way to avoid that is to learn how to connect with people and to nurture relationships that resemble shalom. That means learning to embrace diversity, differences, and to question stereotypes. Truth and trust go hand in hand. This means that we need to take care of our inner selves in cultivating good character. After all, good fruit comes from good trees. Then there is the art of storytelling and how to deal with technology in communications. Schultze shares his love for the teachings of St Augustine, especially on his treatise on rhetoric.
My Thoughts
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What would motivate anyone to read books like this? I could think of three reasons. First, it is about knowing more about ourselves and our identities. What has communications to do with us, one might ask. Well, it takes one to communicate something. That is why the author does not separate his own story from this important topic about communications. This is probably one of Schultze's most personal sharing about his own broken past. For communications is not simply about what we say but how and why we say it. How the author begins the book is telling. He starts with "accept the call" which essentially sees proper communications as a given. He shares his own story about his broken past and how he, a "reluctant communicator" was led to become a professor of communications. A key point I find helpful is the reminder about being vulnerable when we want to communicate graciously. When we hide our true selves, there is a chance of misunderstanding and miscommunication. In marriages, this is most vital that we learn honesty in communications. The more we know ourselves, the more we know how to communicate appropriately and to recognize instances when we might unwittingly hurt other people with our words.
Secondly, it is biblical. Schultze writes with the Christian in mind. Jesus has said in Matthew 15:11, that a man is not defiled by what enters his mouth but by what comes out of their mouths. Good relationships are built on good communications. Great communications are nourished via graciousness and kind virtues. We need more of that in this world. Proverbs 25:11 also teaches us that a word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver. If we want to honour God, one of the best ways is to honour the Word of God and the testimony we bear in the name of Christ. With servant communication as a backdrop, once we endeavour to be an ambassador for Christ, we would necessarily learn to equip ourselves to communicate like a servant of Christ.
Finally, it is most relevant in an increasingly trigger-happy social media world. All it takes is a nasty comment or rebuttal and all hell breaks loose with angry threats, sarcasm, blackmails, lawsuits, and even violence. The world is already broken and we need more love, not less. I appreciate the author taking time to explore some of the modern communications technologies we use. We are living increasingly online, and future generations would have to learn how to navigate this fast-changing medium. I find it most helpful to understand the history of communications in order to learn how humans adjust to the changing medium. Marshall McLuhan had famously said that the medium is the message. We need to spend time learning about the advantages and disadvantages of both old-school and new-school, and to use both appropriately. We would be impoverished if we ignore either of them.
Indeed, great communications will go a long way to make this world a better place to live in.
Quentin J. Schultze is the author of over a dozen books on the relationship between faith and communications. He serves as executive director of the Gainey Institute for Faith and Communication and as Arthur H. DeKruyter Chair in Faith and Communication at Calvin College.
Rating: 4.75 stars of 5.
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