Unmaking Mary

Shattering the Myth of Perfect Motherhood

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Pub Date 8 Jul 2025 | Archive Date 23 Jul 2025

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Description

"Astute, smart, witty and brave. A radical, deeply thoughtful and essential intervention"
Lucy Jones, author of Matrescence

"A deeply valuable reflection on motherhood"
Rowan Williams

For two thousand years, the Virgin Mary has been depicted throughout art, literature and culture as symbolising the perfect mother: chaste, beautiful, meek, mild and white. These supposed virtues and symbols have penetrated not just Christianity but wider popular culture; and contributed to harmful views about motherhood and what it is to be a woman.

In this part-memoir, part social and theological commentary, Chine McDonald deconstructs the myth of perfect motherhood and shines a light on the dark side of parenting. From birth trauma to post-natal depression, from infertility to the mental load, the motherhood penalty and pressures on women to be and have it all - especially in the church - this book attempts to liberate motherhood from the chains in which it has been placed, reconstructing a more authentic, grace-filled way forward for the most important job in the world.

Unmaking Mary will include a foreword written by Beth Allison Barr, author of The Making of Biblical Womanhood.

"Astute, smart, witty and brave. A radical, deeply thoughtful and essential intervention"
Lucy Jones, author of Matrescence

"A deeply valuable reflection on motherhood"
Rowan Williams

For two thousand...


Advance Praise

"This is a wonderful book. Sharp, funny and theologically rich on both Mary and motherhood – constructive theology at its best."

Janet Soskice, Research Professor of Catholic Theology, Duke Divinity School

"In Unmaking Mary, Chine McDonald draws on an impressive range of sources – from theology to social media posts, and from literature to her own personal experiences – to deeply challenge oppressive archetypes and to recover more liberatory models of motherhood. Sweeping in its intellectual range, light in its touch, and discerning in its distinctions, this is a wise and illuminating book."

Jennifer Banks, Senior Executive Editor at Yale University Press and author of Natality: Towards a Philosophy of Birth

"With an honesty as painful as it is rare, Unmaking Mary is a book that will remain with you long after its close. A rigorous examination of motherhood and the ways our icons form us; and a site of truth-telling for those who have, for too long, mirrored postures never meant for us. My only fear is that the foolish among us will mistake it as a book only of interest to women. It is vital reading for all who were once born."

Cole Arthur Riley, author of This Here Flesh

"This is a wonderful book. Sharp, funny and theologically rich on both Mary and motherhood – constructive theology at its best."

Janet Soskice, Research Professor of Catholic Theology, Duke Divinity...


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EDITION Hardcover
ISBN 9781399814638
PRICE US$22.99 (USD)
PAGES 272

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